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CONSENT OF CHILD FOR ADOPTION (Stepparent Adoption)

DSS-5169 (Rev. 11/2014)

Child Welfare Services

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STATE OF NORTH CAROLINA

__________________ COUNTY

I, , being duly sworn, declare:

1. That I was born on the day of , , that my present address is

2. By executing this document, I am voluntarily consenting to my adoption by

(Full name of petitioning stepparent)

3. That I understand that my Consent may be revoked at any time before the Decree of Adoption is entered by filing written notice with the Court in which the adoption petition is pending, which is

4. That the Consent shall be valid and binding and is not affected by any oral or separate written agreement between myself and the adoptive parent(s);

5. That in relation to my adoption, I have not received or been promised any money or anything of value for my Consent;

6. That I understand that the adoption will not terminate the legal relationship of parent and child between myself and my parent, , who is the stepparent’s spouse.

(Name)

I further understand that the adoption will terminate the legal relationship of parent and child between myself and my parent, , who is not the stepparent’s spouse,

(Name)

including all my rights to inherit from or through that parent, and will extinguish any court order of custody, visitation, or communication with me, except that such parent’s obligation for past due child support payments will remain unless legally released from that obligation; and,

7. That I have read or had read to me and understand this Consent; been advised that counseling services may be available through the county department of social services or a licensed child-placing agency; and been advised of my right to consult with any legal counsel already appointed for me.

Signature – Adoptee’s Original Name

Address

DSS-5169 (Rev. 11/2014)

Child Welfare Services

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STATE OF NORTH CAROLINA

__________________ COUNTY

I, , do hereby certify that

personally appeared before me this day

(Original Name of Adoptee)

and acknowledged the due execution of the foregoing document and that this document has been sworn to (or affirmed) and subscribed before me. I further certify to the best of my knowledge and belief that the adoptee executing the Consent: read, or had read to him or her, and understood the Consent, signed the Consent voluntarily; received an original or a copy of his or her fully executed Consent; and was advised that counseling services may be available through county departments of social services or licensed child-placing agencies.

I certify that I, the undersigned, am a Notary Public or one otherwise empowered to administer oaths or take acknowledgements.

Witness my hand and seal this the day of

at

(Place of Consent)

Signature

(SEAL) Title

My commission expires

Note:

Form DSS-5169 is prepared in duplicate and is to be signed by the child being adopted who is twelve years of age or over when the Petition for Adoption is filed or who becomes twelve years of age before the granting of the Decree of Adoption. The original form is presented to the Clerk of Superior Court who then forwards it with the Petition and other Consents/Relinquishments to the Division of Social Services, State Department of Health and Human Services. A signed copy is given to the adoptee.

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What the Consent of Child for Stepparent Adoption Is

The Consent of Child for Stepparent Adoption is a written statement in which a minor acknowledges and agrees to the legal adoption by a stepparent. Courts generally require a signed, dated consent from minors of certain ages or mental capacity before finalizing a stepparent adoption, and the consent becomes part of the adoption record submitted to family court. State rules vary on minimum age, required witnesses or notarization, and whether the child must appear in court; some family-law proceedings are exempt from ESIGN/UETA treatment, so check local requirements before relying on an electronic-only execution.

Why a Proper Consent Form Matters

A clear written consent documents the child's voluntary decision, reduces the risk of later challenges, and gives the court direct evidence of assent. Properly completed consents help streamline the adoption process and avoid delays at the hearing stage.

Why a Proper Consent Form Matters

Who Prepares and Uses the Consent Form

The consent form is typically prepared by the petitioner, the petitioner’s attorney, or an adoption agency for submission to the family court.

  • Stepparent petitioner — provides the form and files it with the court or agency.
  • Biological parent(s) or guardian — may be asked to sign consent or provide waiver information.
  • Court clerk or judge — receives the consent as part of the adoption package.

Parties should confirm state filing rules, required notarization or witnesses, and whether the child must appear in person before completing the form.

Key Signatory Roles

Minor (Consenting Child)

A child who has the legal capacity and meets statutory age thresholds to consent. The child signs to acknowledge voluntary agreement; courts review capacity and voluntariness before accepting consent into the record.

Stepparent (Petitioner)

The individual seeking to adopt who files the adoption petition and attaches the child's consent. The petitioner ensures the consent form is complete, properly authenticated, and submitted according to local court rules.

What a Professional Consent Form Contains

A properly drafted consent form contains the child's clear declaration, identifying details, authentication elements, and a place for court reference numbers so it can be attached to the adoption petition and admitted as evidence.

Consent Statement

A concise affidavit-style declaration that the child freely consents to stepparent adoption, describing understanding of the legal effect and that consent is voluntary.

Child Identification

Full legal name, date of birth, place of birth, and current residence to tie the consent unequivocally to the child in the court record.

Parental / Guardian Info

Names and contact information for biological parent(s) or legal guardian(s), plus any required declarations about parental rights being waived or terminated.

Signature Block

Signature and printed name of the consenting child, dated in MM/DD/YYYY format; include block for parental or guardian signature if required by statute.

Authentication

Notary acknowledgement or witness attestation if the jurisdiction requires notarization, remote online notarization, or specified witness counts.

Court Reference

Space for county, case number, judge name, and filing stamp so the form can be bundled with the adoption petition or final decree.

Step-by-Step: Completing the Consent Form

Follow these sequential steps to prepare a court-ready consent of child for stepparent adoption.

  • 01
    Prepare the Form: Complete identification and consent language.
  • 02
    Confirm Authentication: Check notarization or witness needs.
  • 03
    Sign Correctly: Child signs in presence of required official.
  • 04
    File with Court: Attach to the adoption petition for the hearing.

Configuring an Online Completion Workflow

When digitizing the consent form, set up signer roles, authentication, and mandatory fields to match court requirements.

Field Configuration
Signer Roles Assign child, guardian, and petitioner roles with signing order.
Authentication Use SMS or ID verification where court permits higher assurance.
Mandatory Fields Make name, DOB, consent language, and signature required.
Notary / Witness Enable conditional notarization fields or RON session link.

Technical and File Requirements for eCompletion

Use a secure platform that supports PDF or DOCX forms, audit trails, and higher-level signer authentication when required by court rule.

  • File Formats: PDF or DOCX accepted by courts.
  • Authentication: Email, SMS, or KBA as allowed.
  • Audit Trail: Capture IP, timestamps, and actions.

Verify local family-court rules before relying on digital execution; some jurisdictions require in-person signatures, specific notary language, or an in-court appearance for minors.

Where to File or Send the Completed Consent

After execution, the consent typically travels to the petitioning attorney or the family court clerk as part of the adoption packet.

  • Petitioning Attorney: Include consent with the adoption petition.
  • Adoption Agency: Attach consent to agency case records.
  • Family Court Clerk: File consent with the court docket.
  • Court Hearing: Bring originals for the finalization hearing.

Typical Timing and Deadlines to Expect

Timing depends on local court schedules and statutory notice periods; plan ahead to avoid missing hearing windows or required waiting periods.

Pre-Hearing Filing:

File consent before the finalization hearing.

Notice Periods:

Observe any jurisdictional waiting periods.

Court Scheduling:

Allow several weeks for docketing and notices.

Document Updates:

Update consent if facts change prior to hearing.

Post-Finalization:

Official decree issued at or after hearing.

Key Milestones from Preparation to Finalization

A concise milestone sequence clarifies the path from executing consent to the court’s final adoption order.

01

Draft and Review

Prepare consent and obtain counsel review.

02

Authenticate

Sign before notary or witnesses as required.

03

File with Court

Submit consent with petition and exhibits.

04

Final Hearing

Present consent to judge for acceptance.

Penalties and Risks of an Incorrect Consent

Invalid Consent: Court may refuse to accept it.
Hearing Delays: Incomplete forms postpone finalization.
Contested Adoption: Opposing parties can challenge validity.
Perjury Exposure: False statements risk legal penalties.
Authentication Errors: Improper notarization can void consent.
Record Mismatches: Name mismatches cause identity issues.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Using nicknames or inconsistent legal names that do not match the child’s birth certificate or ID, which can trigger court requests for clarification or re-execution.
  • Signing before confirming whether notarization, witnesses, or an in-court appearance is required by the jurisdiction, causing rejection of the document.
  • Failing to date signatures in MM/DD/YYYY format or leaving the court case number blank, which delays docketing and record attachment.
  • Assuming all courts accept remote electronic signatures; adoption and other family law matters are frequently excluded from ESIGN/UETA exceptions.

Data and Security Considerations

Encryption: TLS 1.2/1.3 in transit, AES-256 at rest.
HIPAA: BAA required for health data handling.
Audit Trail: Capture timestamps, IP, and actions.
Access Controls: Role-based permissions and SSO.
Retention: Secure archival with tamper evidence.
Certifications: SOC 2 Type II and ISO 27001 available.

Practical Examples of Consent Use

Two short examples illustrate how a consent form fits into real adoption workflows and the benefits of clear documentation.

County Court Submission

A petitioner completes the consent and notarizes it locally

  • The court clerk attaches it to the adoption packet
  • The judge reviews the document at the final hearing and issues the decree without delay due to clear, authenticated consent.

Agency Intake

An adoption agency collects a signed consent during intake

  • The agency retains the notarized original and uploads a certified copy to the case file
  • The consent expedites background checks and reduces follow-up requests for additional documentation.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Consent of Child for Stepparent Adoption

Answers to common questions about execution, notarization, state rules, and what to do if a consent is challenged.


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