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FAMILY COURT
STATE OF DELAWARE
DIVORCE PACKAGE
UNCONTESTED – ADULT CHILDREN
WITH OR WITHOUT PROPERTY
Control Number DE-004-D
This packet contains the following:
1. Information about Divorce
2. Form List
3. Form Explanations
4. Instructions and Steps
5. Checklist
6. Access to Law Summary
You and your spouse must agree to all terms of the divorce to use this packet.
All forms to be filed with the clerk must be printed on bond paper.
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INFORMATION ABOUT DIVORCE
1. WHO MAY USE THESE FORMS: This packet is designed for the sole purpose of
obtaining an uncontested divorce. This packet is only of use to you if you and your
spouse are willing to agree to all the terms and conditions of your divorce. You must
communicate with your spouse and keep him/her advised as to each step in the process.
If you cannot agree, you will become involved in a contested divorce, which is beyond
the scope of this packet. You may only use this package if all of the following are true:
(a) There are no minor children of said marriage, and the wife is not
now pregnant. All children of the marriage are over the age of twenty-one
(21) and emancipated;
(b) The parties agree to all provisions of the divorce; and
(c) The parties complete the written Separation and Property
Settlement Agreement indicating the division of property, debts, and
spousal maintenance, if any.
2. THE BASICS: In a typical divorce, you must satisfy two basic requirements before you
can file for divorce. Those requirements include the residency requirements and
appropriate grounds for divorce . These requirements are discussed in detail in their
respective sections, below.
In addition, you must agree with your spouse to become divorced, and agree to all the
terms of the dissolution of marriage in filling out the forms, including property division.
You will complete and file the forms (see detailed instructions, below) in the Family
Court for the county where either party resides. DCA 13-1504
3. RESIDENCY REQUIREMENTS: Either you or your spouse must have resided in
Delaware for at least 6 months, or been stationed in Delaware as a member of the military
for at least 6 months. DCA 13-1504, 13-1507
4. GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE: You and your spouse must be seeking a divorce
because your marriage is irretrievably broken, and reconciliation is not probable. You
must have separated for at least 6 months prior to filing the divorce because of
incompatibility or by voluntary agreement. DCA 13-1505
5. WAITING PERIODS: You must be separated from your spouse for 6 months prior to
filing for divorce.
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6. ALIMONY: Because this is an agreed divorce, you will decide issues of “alimony”--
the periodic payment of money from one spouse to the other on a temporary or
permanent basis. The forms in this no-fault divorce package assume that no alimony will
be paid and none will be sought-- but you may add provisions for alimony to the
Separation Agreement (DE-803D) if you desire. In a contested case, the courts might
award alimony. A contested divorce is beyond the scope of this divorce package. You
should consult a local attorney regarding the possibilities concerning alimony if you
have questions or foresee conflict regarding this issue. For more information, see,
DCA 13-1512
7 . DISTRIBUTION OF PROPERTY: In a divorce, the property such as land, house,
buildings, and items of personal property owned by the couple is divided between the
parties. Debts owed are also allocated to one party or the other, or both. This is
accomplished by means of a Separation Agreement (DE-803D). You and your spouse
must agree to the property and debt division and memorialize your agreement in the
Separation Agreement (DE-803D) , which will be incorporated by reference into the
Decree of Divorce that ultimately ends your marriage. You may agree to divide the
property any way you like, as long as a basic fairness is maintained, and you both agree.
If you cannot agree on any item of this division, the dissolution of marriage transforms
into a contested divorce . A contested divorce is outside the scope of this packet.
8. NAME CHANGE: Upon request, the wife may change her name to a former or maiden
name, as long as the reason for the name change is not for fraudulent or misleading
purposes. DCA 13-1514
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FORM LIST
The following forms are included in this package:
1. Information Statement (DE-240)
2. Petition for Divorce (DE-442)
3. Separation Agreement (DE-803D)
4. Stipulation to Incorporate Separation Agreement (DE-443)
5. Request for Notice (DE-400)
6. Non-Military Affidavit (DE-405)
7. Vital Statistics Sheet (DE-441) or Vital Statistics Same Sex Marriage (DE-441SS)
(choose one)
Note: Each original petition for divorce or annulment shall contain, as an exhibit
to the petition, a certified copy of the certificate of the marriage between the
Petitioner and the Respondent.
Your spouse must obtain an Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver of Rights from
the Clerk of Court. If you spouse is currently on active duty with a branch of the
U.S. Armed Forces, he or she must also obtain from the Clerk a Waiver of Rights
Under the Soldiers’ and Sailors’ Relief Act form.
Depending on your County, additional forms may be required that are County-
specific. These forms will be available from the Clerk.
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FORM EXPLANATIONS
All forms included in this package are identified and described below. If there is a space for the
signature of a Notary on the form, then the form must be signed before a Notary Public.
1. Petition for Divorce: (DE-442) Th is document begins the divorce process, and includes
the necessary legal details for asking the court to dissolve your marriage. Use the
Petition for Divorce/Annulment ONLY when : You want a divorce or annulment; AND
either you or your spouse has resided (lived) in Delaware for at least 6 months
immediately preceding filing for divorce or annulment; OR e ither you or your spouse has
been stationed in Delaware as a member of the military for at least 6 months immediately
preceding filing for divorce or annulment. Although this packet appears to discuss only
what you need to do if you want to file a Petition for Divorce, you should also use this
packet if you want to file a Petition for Annulment.
2. Information Statement: (DE-240) This document provides the Court with general
information about the parties which allows the Court to adequately notify the parties
about upcoming proceedings and to maintain up-to-date records.
3. Separation Agreement: (DE-803D) This document is a contract in which you and your
spouse agree to divide all of your marital property and debts. This agreement will be
filed with your Petition for Divorce (DE-442) and incorporated into the Decree of
Divorce that ends your marriage.
4. Stipulation to Incorporate Separation Agreement: (DE-443) This is an agreement to
incorporate your Separation Agreement (DE-803D) into the Decree of Divorce.
5. Request for Notice: (DE-400) This form must be marked in Section B to indicate
“Withhold Issuance of Summons.” This avoids the formal requirements for service of
process if your spouse agrees to go to the courthouse to pick up a copy of the Petition and
pick up, complete and file the Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver of Rights.
6. Non-Military Affidavit: (DE-405) Complete this form ONLY IF your spouse is NOT an
active duty member of the military. Bring this form to the final hearing.
7. Vital Statistics Sheet (DE-441) OR Vital Statistics Same Sex Marriage (DE-441SS)
These forms are used by the State of Delaware to update its vital statistics records upon
granting the divorce. Choose only one form.
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INSTRUCTIONS AND STEPS
Please look for the following symbol throughout the packet. It will help guide you.
READ THIS SECTION CAREFULLY THIS DOCUMENT MUST BE
FILED
STEP 1: In cooperation with your spouse, complete the following forms:
Form 1- Petition for Divorce (DE-442)
Check the box indicating, “Incorporate our Separation Agreement”
Form 2- Information Statement (DE-240)
This form provides information for the court’s use. File original and one copy.
Form 3- Request for Notice (DE-400)
Check the box in Section B, “Please Withhold Issuance of Summons”
Form 4- Separation Agreement (DE-803D)
File original and one copy.
Form 5- Stipulation to Incorporate Separation Agreement (DE-443)
Both you and your spouse MUST sign the Stipulation to Incorporate the
Separation Agreement in the presence of a notary.
When you file this form, you MUST ALSO file your Separation Agreement.
You may file a Separation Agreement and the Stipulation to Incorporate the
Separation Agreement AT ANY TIME UNTIL the day the Court decides your
petition.
Make at least 5 copies of your completed documents.
Call ahead to the court clerk and determine the amount of the filing fee and
accepted forms of payment. Go to the courthouse and FILE the forms. File any
needed copies of the Forms. The clerk will stamp any unneeded copies “Filed,”
and return them to you. When filing your documents, make sure the case
number for your case is on each one. The clerk will have just assigned this
number, so you will have to take a moment to include it on your forms in the
appropriate blank on the first page.
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Note: If a form con tains a space for the signature of a Notary Public, it must be
signed by you (and if necessary by your spouse) in front of a Notary Public, who
must notarize the document. Prepare an original and several copies of each of
your completed documents. Your spouse should have a copy of everything you
file, stamped “filed” by the clerk. You should keep copies and the court must
have originals. If reference is made to attaching one document to a second
document, then any subsequent reference to the second document assumes that
the first document is attached thereto.
STEP 2: Obtain and complete the following forms:
Certified copy of your Marriage Certificate
You MUST file a certified copy of your marriage certificate. A certified copy
will bear an embossed seal or watermark signifying that it is an official copy.
You may NOT file a photocopy of an original copy. A certified copy of your
marriage certificate is available from the Division of Public Health and Vital
Statistics in the state or jurisdiction where you were married. You CANNOT
obtain a copy of your marriage certificate at Family Court.
If, and only if, your spouse is on active duty in the military, obtain a form from
the clerk called “Waiver of Rights under the Soldiers and Sailors Relief Act.”
Your spouse must complete this form and file it when he or she goes to the clerk’s
office to pick up a copy of the Petition for Divorce (DE-442) and sign the
Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver (see below).
STEP 3: Notify your spouse to go to the clerk’s office and pick up a copy of the Petition
for Divorce (DE-442) .
At this time, your spouse must pick up, complete, and FILE a document called
“Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver of Rights,” thereby agreeing to an
uncontested divorce on the basis of the Separation Agreement (DE-803D) . The
Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver is only available at the clerk’s office.
If, and only if, your spouse is in the military on active duty, your spouse must also
at this time FILE the “Waiver of Rights under the Soldiers and Sailors Relief
Act.”
STEP 4: Once your spouse has filed the Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver , contact
the court to determine a date for your Hearing. Your spouse does not have to
attend this hearing.
If, and only if, your spouse is NOT on active duty in the military, complete and
bring to the Hearing Form 6- the Non-Military Affidavit (DE-405) . If your
spouse IS on active duty in the military, ignore Form 6.
Bring all of your documents to the Hearing.
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NOTE: Properly completing all of the forms does not guarantee that the Court
will give you (grant) what you want. It is up to you at the Court Hearing to prove
why the Court should give you (grant) you what you want.
If your divorce is granted, your divorce will become final on the day the Judge
signs the Divorce Decree. This may not necessarily be the same day as the
divorce Hearing, which may be presided over by a “special master” who merely
makes a recommendation to the Judge.
Once your Divorce Decree is signed by the Judge, it will be filed with the clerk.
Obtain a certified copy of the Decree and instruct your spouse to obtain a copy.
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TIPS AND REMINDERS
Make sure that you read any FAQ’s (Answers to Frequently Asked Questions) on Divorce.
These will give you the information that you need to properly file a Petition for
Divorce/Annulment and to better understand the process.
The laws governing divorce and annulment are found in Title 13 of the Delaware Code. It
will be helpful for you to read these statutes, so that you are aware of the law that the Court
will be applying when deciding your case. The Delaware Code is available in the Family
Court Resource Centers, public libraries throughout Delaware and on the internet at
www.delcode.state.de.us .
BE AWARE that this Packet does NOT address the issues of custody, visitation or child
support. Check at the Family Court Resource Centers or on the Family Court web site for
information and packets addressing these issues. These resources will provide you with
detailed information regarding custody, visitation and child support, including any
additional forms that you must file when requesting that the Court consider these matters.
REMEMBER:
The PETITIONER is the person who files the Petition for Divorce (YOU).
The RESPONDENT is the person replying (responding) to the Petition .
Please remember that COURT STAFF CANNOT GIVE YOU LEGAL ADVICE . If at
any point in the divorce process you are unsure about representing yourself, or have any
questions as to what options you have or what you should do; you should talk to an attorney.
Just because you talk to an attorney does not mean that you must hire that attorney to
represent you. Ask the attorney if he/she is willing to meet with you and answer your
questions without having to hire him/her for full representation. Before you meet with the
attorney, ask what fees may be involved for such limited services.
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If your spouse is a citizen of another country or has lived in another country in the past two
years, you must list the address of the embassy for that country. BE AWARE!!! Possession
of a United States green card does not make a person a citizen of the United States of
America. If your spouse has a green card, you must list the embassy for the country where
he/she is still a citizen.
¾ Before the Court will grant your divorce, you must demonstrate (indicate) that
that your marriage is irretrievably broken AND that reconciliation with your
spouse is not probable by checking BOTH the appropriate boxes on the petition.
You must check both boxes before the Court will grant your divorce. You must
also check at least one of the reasons why your marriage is irretrievably broken .
¾ Ancillary matters are actions that are dependent on the divorce action. In other
words, the Court cannot consider these matters apart from a Petition for
Divorce/Annulment. If you want the Court to grant you a property division,
alimony, court costs, attorney fees or any other ancillary relief allowed in Title 13,
section 1507 (f), you must ask the Court to do so as part of the divorce proceeding
BEFORE THE DIVORCE DECREE IS ENTERED .
¾ Please note that you can only request to change YOUR name. You may not
request to change your spouse’s name. You may only change your name to your
maiden name or other former name.
¾ The Petition for Divorce/Annulment must be notarized by a notary public or
authorized court staff. DO NOT sign your petition until you are in the presence of
a notary.
REMEMBER: Always bring your photo identification (such as your driver’s license or
state issued photo identification card) whenever you need to have a Court form notarized.
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The Separation Date that you list on the Petition for Divorce/Annulment is
VERY IMPORTANT. Court staff will use this date to determine when your petition can
be decided by a Commissioner. Once you have finished filling out your petition, write
down the Separation Date that you listed in your petition in the appropriate space on the
next page. Calculate 6 months from that date and write it in the appropriate space next
page. The second date is the earliest you can expect the Court to decide your petition
unless you have filed on the grounds of misconduct or have filed for an annulment.
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PLEASE READ AND REMEMBER THESE IMPORTANT TIPS
THERE IS A LOT OF PAPERWORK IN A COURT CASE AND HAVING THE
COURT MAKE YOU COPIES CAN BE VERY EXPENSIVE.
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COPIES OF DIVORCE OR ANNULMENT DECREES
To obtain a copy of your final decree of divorce or annulment, you may make the request in
person or by mail.
IN PERSON:
Please stop by the Records Department in the county in which your divorce or annulment was
granted during regular business hours. You will need to provide the clerk with your name and
date of birth. In addition, you will need to present valid photo identification. The cost of a
certified copy of your divorce or annulment decree is $4.00. The cost of a non-certified copy is
$1.00. A fee of $25.00 may be assessed if your records must be retrieved from archives. Payment
is accepted by cash, check, money order or credit card.
BY MAIL:
Please send a written request to the Records Department in the county in which your divorce or
annulment was granted. The request must include your name and date of birth and must contain
your notarized signature . Payment must be enclosed. The cost of a certified copy of your
divorce or annulment decree is $4.00. The cost of a non-certified copy is $1.00. A fee of $25.00
may be assessed if your records must be retrieved from archives. Payment is accepted by check,
or money order.
If you have any questions, please contact the Records Department in the appropriate county at
the numbers listed below.
In New Castle
County: Records Department
Family Court
500 N. King St.
Suite 110
Wilmington, DE 19801
302-255-0334
In Kent County: Records Department
Family Court
400 Court Street
Dover, DE 19901
302-672-1045
In Sussex
County: Records Department
Family Court
22 The Circle
Georgetown, DE 19947
302-855-7463
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CHECKLIST
Complete Forms 1-5.
Obtain a certified copy of your Marriage License.
Make copies of documents. File at courthouse, as per instructions.
Complete and file Division of Public Health/Vital Statistics Form at courthouse.
Filing fees paid.
Obtain military waiver for spouse, if necessary.
Instruct spouse to go to courthouse and pick up copy of Petition (DE-442) and file
Affidavit of Appearance and Waiver of Rights .
Spouse must file military waiver if spouse is active duty military.
Obtain hearing date from court.
Attend hearing, bring all documents. If spouse is NOT active duty military,
complete and bring Non-Military Affidavit (DE-405) to hearing.
Once Decree has been signed and filed, obtain certified copy. Instruct spouse to
obtain certified copy.
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NOTE ABOUT COMPLETING THE FORMS
The forms in this packet may contain “form fields” created using Microsoft Word. “Form fields”
facilitate completion of the forms using your computer. They do not limit you ability to print the
form “in blank” and complete with a typewriter or by hand.
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select Forms. This will open the forms toolbar. Look for the button on the forms toolbar that
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not become visible, then they were not included in this form package.
To complete the forms click on the gray shaded areas and type. You may also change other
words in the document if the document is not locked. The separation agreement is a good
example of a document that is not locked and allows you to make modifications outside the gray
shaded areas.
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field and enter the required information. You will be able to navigate through the document
from form field to form field using your tab key. Tab to a form field and insert your data. If you
experience problems, please let us know.
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LAW SUMMARY
You may access the law summary for your State by using the link below:
http://secure.uslegalforms.com/lawsummary/DE/DE-004-D.htm
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