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Catholic Wedding Planning Checklist

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Letter Agreement with Wedding Consultant or Wedding Planner

Dear :

This letter follows our meeting on , during which we discussed your wedding and my role in helping you plan it. It is my understanding that, you will retain me as a Professional Wedding Consultant and Wedding Day Coordinator for your wedding scheduled on .

The following is a description of my services:

• Consultations with you via telephone/email;

• Assistance in budget determination and breakdown as needed;

• Discussions of theme, color, style and complete wedding design;

• Research of wedding professionals in each category that fit your event style and budget and to provide you with suggestions and guidance in making the final selections;

• Attending vendor appointments of your choice; and

• Up to hours of professional in-person consultation time throughout the planning process.

As Wedding Day Coordinator my duties include:

• Visit to both ceremony and reception sites prior to wedding;

• Development of a detailed wedding timeline and floor plan for contracted vendors and bridal party;

• Following up telephone calls to all contracted vendors 1 – 2 weeks before wedding day

• Wedding Rehearsal Supervision -- hours maximum;

• On-site coordination and supervision at the ceremony site and during the reception for up to hours on the day of your wedding;

Please note that the services listed above do not include running any wedding related errands such as picking up or delivering attire, supplies or equipment, documents, etc. As the client, you will rely on me to work as many hours as may be reasonably necessary to fulfill my obligations under this agreement.

I understand that my role will be that of advisor and coordinator. You will make the actual selections of service providers and I will implement those selections.

You will make payments directly to the service providers/vendors and not to me. I do not accept any commissions from recommended vendors and cannot guarantee any service provider’s performance or product. If litigation occurs, it occurs in the jurisdiction where my office is located and the winning party will be reimbursed for attorney and legal fees and court costs.

It is your responsibility to provide me with contact names, telephone numbers and any scheduled timetables for all service providers involved in the wedding ceremony/reception no later than 14 days prior to the wedding or upon the signing of this letter. It is also your responsibility to notify me of any changes in a timely manner. I shall not be held liable for any changes made by you or your selected service providers.

I will use my professional judgment when taking action in regard to changes, weather, tardiness, nonperformance, etc. based on the situation, time limitations and/or your wishes. In the event a venue coordinator is on site I will work with you and the coordinator as needed.

For my services you will pay me a total of $. Payment will be made as follows:

• A non-refundable retainer in the amount of $ upon execution of this letter of agreement;

• $ due on

• $ due on which is ten days prior to your wedding date.

This agreement will terminate automatically upon completion of the services required by this letter of agreement.

Any changes made to this letter of agreement must be made in writing and signed by all parties.

You may cancel this agreement, in writing, for any reason. If the wedding is canceled, refunds are limited to unearned fees, funds in excess of unused or non-refundable fees and out-of-pocket expenses. If you cancel less than days before the wedding (except for the death of a member of your immediate family) there will be no refund. If the wedding is not canceled, there will be no refund.

If an act of God, such as a fire, flood, earthquake or other natural calamity shall cause you to cancel your wedding; I will require payment only for the time actually spent planning your wedding.

If your understanding parallels mine, please sign one copy of this letter and return it to me along with your payment in the amount of $. I look forward to working with you to make your wedding the most enjoyable and memorable day of your life.

Sincerely,

Date:

The undersigned do hereby accept the terms set forth above.

Date:

Date:

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What the Catholic Wedding Planning Checklist Is

The Catholic Wedding Planning Checklist is a structured, itemized guide that organizes the canonical, parish, civil and logistical tasks needed to prepare for a Catholic marriage. It combines sacramental requirements (baptismal certificates, pre-nuptial investigation), parish meetings (priest, music director, coordinator), and civil steps (marriage license, waiting periods) into a single document couples and parish staff use to track progress and ensure no required item is overlooked before the ceremony.

Why a Checklist Matters for Catholic Weddings

A checklist clarifies responsibilities, sequences mandatory sacramental steps and aligns civil and church timelines. It reduces missed requirements, helps parishes verify documentation, and supports consistent planning across multiple stakeholders involved in a Catholic wedding.

Why a Checklist Matters for Catholic Weddings

Who Typically Uses This Checklist

The checklist is used collaboratively by the engaged couple and church staff to coordinate canonical and civil steps.

  • Engaged couple: Tracks personal tasks and provides sacramental records to the parish.
  • Parish staff: Verifies records, schedules meetings, and confirms ceremony choices.
  • Wedding coordinator: Manages vendors, rehearsal logistics, and the ceremony timeline.

It is also useful to wedding coordinators and legal advisors for document review and timeline planning.

Essential Sections to Include in a Professional Checklist

A complete checklist groups items into clear sections so nothing is missed and responsibilities are assigned. Organize items by documentation, sacramental preparation, permissions, ceremony logistics, vendor coordination, and final confirmations.

Personal Details

Full legal names, birth dates, contact information, and current addresses for both parties; used for civil license and parish records.

Sacramental Records

Baptismal and confirmation certificates (with parish seals), freedom-to-marry statements, and any permissions for mixed-faith marriages.

Marriage Preparation

Completion dates for pre-Cana or equivalent preparation, FOCCUS or inventory results, counseling notes, and documentation of pastoral meetings.

Civil Requirements

County marriage license application, filing deadlines, required identification, and any waiting periods or blood-test rules by jurisdiction.

Ceremony Choices

Selected readings, music approvals, service leaflet text, ministers involved, and any special liturgical permissions requested.

Logistics & Vendors

Rehearsal schedule, photographer arrangements, florist/décor constraints, facility access times, and point-of-contact assignments.

Core Information Fields Required

Full Legal Names: First, middle, last
Dates of Birth: MM/DD/YYYY
Baptism Details: Date and parish
Confirmation Details: Date and parish
Marriage License: County and number
Parish Contacts: Priest and coordinator

Step-by-Step: Completing the Checklist

Follow these sequential actions to complete parish and civil requirements and prepare for the ceremony.

  • 01
    Contact Parish: Schedule an initial meeting to reserve the date and confirm parish requirements.
  • 02
    Assemble Records: Collect baptismal and confirmation certificates and any dispensation requests.
  • 03
    Complete Preparation: Finish pre-Cana or other mandated courses and document completion dates.
  • 04
    Obtain License: Apply for the county marriage license within the jurisdictional time window.

Configuring an Online Checklist Workflow

Set up an electronic workflow that routes documents, collects signatures, and notifies stakeholders to streamline processing.

Field Configuration
Upload Template Use a PDF or DOCX version of the checklist for consistent distribution.
Assign Approvers Designate parish staff and the officiant as approvers in signing order.
Add Signature Fields Place name, signature, and date fields for each required signer.
Reminder Rules Enable automated reminders for incomplete fields or pending signatures.

Digital Signing and Sharing Requirements

Use a secure eSignature platform that supports PDF/DOCX, audit trails, and standard integrations.

  • File Types: PDF and DOCX supported
  • Integrations: Google Workspace and Microsoft 365
  • Audit Trail: Timestamp, IP, and event log

Where to Send Completed Checklist Items

Route completed sections to the appropriate parties to finalize sacramental verification and civil compliance.

  • Parish Office: Submit sacramental records and pre-nuptial forms for clergy review.
  • Officiant / Priest: Confirm ceremony details and any special permissions or dispensations.
  • County Clerk: Apply for and collect the civil marriage license where required.
  • Vendors: Share finalized logistics with photographer, music, and venue contacts.

Supporting Documents and File Formats to Keep

Maintain certified copies and digital files in interoperable formats so both parish and civil offices can access records when needed.

Preferred Formats

Save final checklist and forms as searchable PDF/A or DOCX for long-term preservation and easy printing.

Certified Copies

Keep certified baptism and confirmation certificates; many parishes require originals or parish-certified copies.

Civil License Copy

Store the county-issued marriage license and any receipts in PDF and physical form for recordkeeping.

Course Certificates

Attach pre-Cana or pastoral counseling completion certificates to the checklist file for clergy review.

Typical Timelines and Recommended Deadlines

Plan ahead: parish and civil requirements often have lead times. Use the checklist to map out date-based milestones.

Initial Contact:

Contact the parish 6–12 months before the desired wedding date to reserve the church and officiant.

Sacramental Records:

Submit baptismal and confirmation certificates at least 3–6 months prior to allow time for verification.

Marriage Preparation:

Complete pre-Cana or equivalent at least one month before the wedding to certify completion.

Apply for License:

Apply for the county marriage license within the window required by your jurisdiction (commonly 30–90 days).

Final Review:

Schedule a final meeting with the priest and coordinator 2–4 weeks before the ceremony.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Submitting uncertified baptismal records that the parish will not accept, leading to delays in scheduling.
  • Missing the county license window because local waiting periods vary and some require in‑person application.
  • Assuming online signatures are accepted when the parish requires original signatures or in‑person verification.
  • Failing to confirm music or readings with the parish music director, which can result in last-minute changes.

Risks of Incomplete or Incorrect Checklists

Ceremony Delay: Date may be postponed
License Rejection: Civil license denied
Canonical Objection: Marriage impediment found
Vendor Conflict: Scheduling or access issues
Record Loss: Missing original documents
Additional Costs: Rush fees or repeat filings

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Frequently Asked Questions About the Checklist

Answers to common questions about documents, signatures, parish acceptance, and timeline conflicts when using the checklist.


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