INSTRUCTIONS FOR FLORIDA SUPREME COURT APPROVED
FAMILY LAW FORM 12.981(b)(1),
JOINT PETITION FOR ADOPTION BY STEPPARENT (11/15)
When should this form be used?
This form should be used when a stepparent is adopting his or her spouse ’s child. Both the
stepparent and his or her spouse must sign this petition . You must attach all necessary
consents or acknowledgments that apply to your case, as listed under the Special Notes section
below. Florida Statutes require that consent to adoption be obtained from:
The mother of the minor.
The father of the minor if:
1. The minor was conceived or born while the father was married to the mother;
2. The minor is his child by adoption;
3. The minor has been established by a court proceeding to be his child;
4. He has filed an affidavit of paternity pursuant to section 382.013(2)(c) Florida
Statutes; or
5. In the case of an unmarried biological father, he has acknowledged in writing,
signed in the presence of a competent witness, that he is the father of the minor,
has filed such acknowledgment with the Office of Vital Statistics of the
Department of Health within the required timeframes, and has complied with the
requirements of section 63.062(2), Florida Statutes.
Determining whether someone’s consent is requir ed, or when consent may not be required is a
complicated issue and you may wish to consult an attorney. For more information about
consenting to adoption, you should refer to Chapter 63, Florida Statutes, and sections 63.062-
63.082 in particular.
This form should be typed or printed in black ink. The name to be given to the child(ren) after
the adoption should be used in the heading of the petition. The stepparent is the petitioner ,
because he or she is the one who is asking the court for legal action. After completing this form,
you and your spouse must sign it before a notary public or deputy clerk . You should then file
the original and 1 copy with the clerk of the circuit court in the county where the minor resides
unless the court changes the venue.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION REGARDING E-FILING
The Florida Rules of Judicial Administration now require that all petitions, pleadings, and
documents be filed electronically except in certain circumstances. Self-represented litigants
may file petitions or other pleadings or documents electronically; however, they are not
required to do so. If you choose to file your pleadings or documents electronically, you must
do so in accordance with Florida Rule of Judicial Administration 2.525, and you must follow the
procedures of the judicial circuit in which you file. The rules and procedures should be
carefully read and followed.
What should I do next?
Instructions for Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition
for Adoption by Stepparent (11/15)
For your case to proceed, you must have the written consent of the other birth parent and the
child, if applicable. The court may choose not to require consent to an adoption in some
circumstances. For more information about situations where consent may not be required, see
section 63.064, Florida Statutes. If you are attempting to proceed without the consent of the
other birth parent, you may wish to consult with an attorney. Section 63.054, Florida Statutes,
requires that in each adoption proceeding, the Florida Putative Father Registry be searched.
You will need an order from the judge to do this, which you can request by filing a Motion for
Search of the Putative Father Registry, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form
12.981(a)(6) .
When you have filed all of the required forms and met the requirements as outlined above, you
are ready to set a hearing on your petition. You should check with the clerk of court, family
law intake staff or the judicial assistant to set a final hearing . If all persons required to
consent have consented and the consents/affidavits of nonpaternity have been filed with the
court, the hearing may be held immediately. If not, notice of the hearing must be given as
provided by the Rules of Civil Procedure. See Form 1.902, Florida Rules of Civil Procedure. If
you know where the other birth parent lives, you should use personal service. If you absolutely
do not know where he or she lives, you may use constructive service . In order to use
constructive service you will need to complete and submit to the court Stepparent Adoption:
Affidavit of Diligent Search , Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(a)(4).
For more information about personal and constructive service, you should refer to the “General
Instructions for Self-Represented Litigants” found at the beginning of these forms and the
instructions to Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure Forms 12.910(a) and 12.913(b) and
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.913(a). However, the law regarding
constructive service is very complex and you may wish to consult an attorney regarding that
issue.
Where can I look for more information?
Before proceeding, you should read “General Information for Self-Represented Litigants”
found at the beginning of these forms. See Chapter 63, Florida Statutes, and Florida Family
Law Rule 12.200(a)(2) for further information.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION REGARDING E-SERVICE ELECTION
After the initial service of process of the petition or supplemental petition by the Sheriff or
certified process server, the Florida Rules of Judicial Administration now require that all
documents required or permitted to be served on the other party must be served by electronic
mail (e-mail) except in certain circumstances. You must strictly comply with the format
requirements set forth in the Rules of Judicial Administration. If you elect to participate in
electronic service, which means serving or receiving pleadings by electronic mail (e-mail), or
through the Florida Courts E-Filing Portal, you must review Florida Rule of Judicial
Administration 2.516. You may find this rule at www.flcourts.org through the link to the Rules of
Judicial Administration provided under either Family Law Forms: Getting Started, or Rules of
Court in the A-Z Topical Index.
SELF-REPRESENTED LITIGANTS MAY SERVE DOCUMENTS BY E-MAIL; HOWEVER,
THEY ARE NOT REQUIRED TO DO SO. If a self-represented litigant elects to serve and
receive documents by e-mail, the procedures must always be followed once the initial election is
made.
Instructions for Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition
for Adoption by Stepparent (11/15)
To serve and receive documents by e-mail, you must designate your e-mail addresses by using
the Designation of Current Mailing and E-mail Address , Florida Supreme Court Approved
Family Law Form 12.915, and you must provide your e-mail address on each form on which
your signature appears. Please CAREFULLY read the rules and instructions for: Certificate of
Service (General), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.914; Designation of
Current Mailing and E-mail Address , Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form
12.915; and Florida Rule of Judicial Administration 2.516.
Special notes...
With this petition you must file the following:
Consent form executed by the birth parent, Stepparent Adoption : Consent and
Waiver by Parent, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(a)(1) or
Stepparent Adoption : Affidavit of Nonpaternity, Florida Supreme Court Approved
Family Law Form 12.981(a)(3).
If any person whose consent is required is deceased, a certified copy of the death
certificate must be attached to this Petition.
Consent form executed by the minor child(ren), if the child(ren) is/are over 12 years of
age, Stepparent Adoption: Consent of Adoptee, Florida Supreme Court Approved
Family Law Form 12.981(a)(2) . The court can excuse filing of this form under certain
circumstances.
Certified copy of the child(ren)’s birth certificate.
Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) Affidavit ,
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.902(d).
If applicable, Stepparent Adoption: Motion for Search of the Putative Father
Registry, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(a)(6).
These family law forms contain a Final Judgment of Stepparent Adoption , Florida Supreme
Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(2), which the judge may use. You should check
with the clerk, family law intake staff, or judicial assistant to see if you need to bring a final
judgment form with you to the hearing. If so, you should type or print the heading, including the
circuit, county case number, division, and the child(ren)’s names, and leave the rest blank for
the judge to complete at your hearing. You should decide how many certified copies of the
final judgment you will need and be prepared to obtain them after the hearing. There is a
charge for certified copies, and the clerk can tell you how much. The file will be sealed after the
final hearing, and then it will take an order from a judge to open the file and obtain a copy of the
final judgment.
AN ADOPTIVE STEPPARENT WILL CONTINUE TO HAVE PARENTAL RIGHTS,
INCLUDING CUSTODY AND TIME-SHARING, WHERE APPROPRIATE, IN THE EVENT OF
A LATER DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE, AND MAY BE LIABLE FOR CHILD SUPPORT IN
THE EVENT OF A LATER DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE. YOU COULD BE LIABLE IN
LITIGATION FOR THE ACTIONS OF THE ADOPTEE(S). THIS ADOPTION MAY ALSO
AFFECT THE ADOPTEE’S INHERITANCE.
Remember, a person who is NOT an attorney is called a nonlawyer. If a nonlawyer helps you
fill out these forms, that person must give you a copy of a Disclosure from Nonlawyer , Florida
Family Law Rules of Procedure Form 12.900 (a), before he or she helps you. A nonlawyer
helping you fill out these forms also must put his or her name, address, and telephone number
on the bottom of the last page of every form he or she helps you complete.
Instructions for Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition
for Adoption by Stepparent (11/15)
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE __________________ JUDICIAL CIRCUIT,
IN AND FOR __________________ COUNTY, FLORIDA
Case No.:
_______________________
Division:
_______________________
IN THE MATTER OF THE ADOPTION OF
_________________________________________,
{use name to be given to the minor child} Adoptee.
JOINT PETITION FOR ADOPTION BY STEPPARENT
Petitioner, {full legal name} ______________________________________, being sworn,
joined by the above-named child(ren)’s _____ mother _____ father, {full legal name}
__________________________ , being sworn, files this joint petition for adoption of the above-
named minor child(ren), under chapter 63, Florida Statutes.
1. This is an action for adoption of a minor child(ren) by his or her (their) stepparent.
2. I desire to adopt the following child(ren):
Name to be given to child(ren) Birth date Birthplace
a. ____________________________________________________________________
______
b. ____________________________________________________________________
______
c. ____________________________________________________________________
______
d. ____________________________________________________________________
______
e. ___________________________________________________________________
_______
f. ___________________________________________________________________
_______
A certif i ed c o p y o f t h e b ir t h certific a te ( s ) i s /are a tta c h ed.
3. The child(ren) has (have) resided with me since {date}
__________________________________. I wish to adopt the child(ren) because I
would like to legally establish the parent-child relationship already existing between the
child(ren) and me. Since the above date, I have been able to provide adequately for the
material needs of the child(ren) and am able to continue doing so in the future, as well
as to provide for the child(ren)’s mental and emotional well-being. Other reasons I wish
to adopt the children are:
____________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________
________
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition for Adoption by
Stepparent (11/15)
______________________________________________________________________
________
4. I am ______________ years old, and have resided at {street address},
_____________________
{city} _____________________ {county} __________ {state} _______ for
_____________ years.
5. I married the _____ father or _____ mother of the child(ren) on {date}
___________________ , in {city} _____________________ {county} __________ {state}
_______ . The following are the dates and places of my dissolutions of marriage, if any:
Date Place
a. _ ________________________________
_______________________________________
b. ____________________________________________
__________________________
6. A completed Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act Affidavit
(UCCJEA) , Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.902(d), is filed with
this petition.
7. A description and estimate of the value of any property of the adoptee(s) is as follows:
______________________________________________________________________
____
______________________________________________________________________
____
______________________________________________________________________
____
______________________________________________________________________
____
8. Consent by the adoptee(s):
_____ is attached for: Name(s)
____________________________________________________
_____ is not required because the adoptee(s) is/are not 12 years of age: Name(s)
____________
_____ was excused by the court for: Name(s)
_________________________________________
9. The following person(s) is/are required to consent and the consent form or affidavit of
nonpaternity is/are attached
_______________________________________________________
10. The following person(s) whose consent is required has not consented. The
facts/circumstances that excuse the lack of consent and would justify termination of this
person’s parental rights are:
Name Address
Facts/circumstances
_____________________________________________________________________
_____
_____________________________________________________________________
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition for Adoption by
Stepparent (11/15)
_____
_____________________________________________________________________
_____
_____________________________________________________________________
_____
11. A copy of this Petition was served on all known persons whose consent is required but
did not waive notice, as well as on all persons whose consent is required but did not
provide consent. Proof of service is attached.
{Indicate if applicable}:
_____ A search of the Putative Father Registry maintained by the Office of Vital
Statistics of the Department of Health has been requested, and if granted, the
certificate from the State Registrar will be filed in this action.
WHEREFORE, I request that this Court terminate the parental rights of
__________________________,
{name of parent whose rights are sought to be terminated} , enter a Final Judgment of Adoption
of the Minor Child(ren) by Petitioner Stepparent and, as requested, change the name of the
adoptee(s).
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition for Adoption by
Stepparent (11/15)
I understand that I am swearing or affirming under oath to the truthfulness of the claims
made in this petition and that the punishment for knowingly making a false statement
includes fines and/or imprisonment.
Dated: ____________________
_______________________________________
Signature of Party
Printed Name:
___________________________
Address:
_______________________________
City, State, Zip:
__________________________
Telephone Number:
______________________
Fax Number:
____________________________
Designated E-mail Address(es):
_____________
___________________________________
____
STATE OF FLORIDA
COUNTY OF _________________
Sworn to or affirmed and signed before me on __________ by
__________________________________ .
NOTARY PUBLIC or DEPUTY CLERK
{Print, type, or stamp commissioned name of
notary or clerk.}
_____ Personally known
_____ Produced identification
Type of identification produced _________________________
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition for Adoption by
Stepparent (11/15)
I understand that I am swearing or affirming under oath to the truthfulness of the claims
made in this petition and that the punishment for knowingly making a false statement
includes fines and/or imprisonment.
Dated: ____________________
_______________________________________
Signature of Party
Printed Name:
___________________________
Address:
_______________________________
City, State, Zip:
__________________________
Telephone Number:
______________________
Fax Number:
____________________________
Designated E-mail Address(es):
_____________
___________________________________
____
STATE OF FLORIDA
COUNTY OF _________________
Sworn to or affirmed and signed before me on __________ by
__________________________________ .
NOTARY PUBLIC or DEPUTY CLERK
{Print, type, or stamp commissioned name of
notary or clerk.}
_____ Personally known
_____ Produced identification
Type of identification produced _________________________
IF A NONLAWYER HELPED YOU FILL OUT THIS FORM, HE/SHE MUST FILL IN THE
BLANKS BELOW:
[fill in all blanks] This form was prepared for the: ( ) parent ( ) stepparent ( ) both .
This form was completed with the assistance of:
{name of individual}
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition for Adoption by
Stepparent (11/15)
___________________________________________________________________ ,
{name of business}
____________________________________________________________________ ,
{address}
____________________________________________________________________________ ,
{city} ____________________ , {state} _____ , {zip code} __________ , {telephone number}
____________.
Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.981(b)(1), Joint Petition for Adoption by
Stepparent (11/15)