SINCE YOU CARE
I N C O OP E R AT ION W I T H T H E NAT IONA L A L L IA N C E F OR C A R E G I V I N G
Caregivers face many challenges as they search for information
and make decisions about how best to provide care to their
loved ones. To help meet their needs, MetLife offers Since You
Care® — a series of guides which provide practical suggestions
and useful tools on a variety of specific care-related topics.
CHOOSING AN
ASSISTED LIVING
COMMUNITY
What Is
Assisted Living?
Assisted living is a term that describes a
kind of housing option for older adults
that combines independent accommodations with support services such as dining, wellness, social activities, personal
care, medication management, and more.
Assisted living helps older adults to enjoy
a lifestyle that allows for independence,
dignity, and social involvement, with
the benefits of assistance to meet their
daily needs. It generally includes 24-hour
supervision, housekeeping, meal preparation, and assistance with activities of daily
living. Different names for assisted living
sometimes indicate the size of the housing arrangement. They may be referred
to as residential care communities, adult
congregate living communities, board
and care, personal care homes, retirement
homes for adults, or community residences. The names vary widely because
each state, not the federal government,
provides oversight and regulation of its
own residences.
Definition and Philosophy
Assisted living communities also strive to meet
the social, emotional, cultural, intellectual, and
spiritual well-being of their residents.1 The
autonomy, dignity, and independence of the older
adult are the core philosophies. An important part
of this philosophy is the desire to accommodate
the changing needs and preferences of individuals,
helping them to remain as independent as possible
in an environment that gives them the security of
knowing that people are available should they need
assistance at any time.
History and Profile
Assisted living became a viable option for older
adults in the mid-1980s, and the number of residences has been growing ever since.2 Currently
there are over 39,500 residences with about a
million residents.3
In a 2006 survey, the average age of residents was
85, and 76% were women.4 Many needed help
with at least two activities of daily living such as
bathing and dressing, while 91% needed help with
housework, and 86% needed help with their medications.5 Some assisted living communities also
provide care for those with cognitive impairments
related to illnesses such as Alzheimer’s disease.
When to Consider an Assisted
Living Community
Assisted living is an appealing option for those
who do not need the skilled medical attention that
a nursing home would provide, but would enjoy
the benefit of being around others in a community
setting. It may be a welcome alternative to maintaining a house and a car, preparing meals, and
coping with inclement weather. For others, it may
be a decision that is reached as a result of a change
in health that has had a significant impact on lifestyle. For example, after taking a fall and sustaining
an injury, you may find that the older adult becomes more anxious about walking and becomes
isolated and depressed, and as a result eats less and
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loses weight. These may be indicators that living
alone is no longer a safe option. Answering these
questions may help clarify your older loved one’s
needs:
Does the older person need help with the following:
• Getting into and out of a shower safely
• General housekeeping
• Managing medications
• Managing personal care
• Supervision for personal safety
Things to Consider
Locating a Community
When you have decided that assisted living is
the right option the question becomes, “How do
we find the one that best suits his or her needs?”
Planning ahead, when you are not in crisis, will
give you the opportunity to explore the different
populations served, settings offered, and available
service options. Your family member’s physical
and mental needs will serve as guideposts for your
decision making and discussions with admissions
personnel. Seek recommendations and referrals
from doctors, friends, and other community
agencies. Your Area Agency on Aging or State Office on Aging are good resources to start gathering
information regarding rules, regulations, and the
availability of assisted living communities in the
area. (See Resources to Get You Started on page 6.)
Choosing a Community
When choosing an assisted living residence, you
want to consider one that embraces the philosophy of consumer choice as described below by
the National Center for Assisted Living and the
American Health Care Association.6
You should expect to:
• Be treated with dignity and respect
• Be informed of services available and the
limitations of those services
• Manage your personal funds
• Retain and use your personal possessions
• Interact freely with others both inside the residence and in the community
• Have freedom of religion
• Control your health-related services
• Maintain your privacy
• Be free to exercise your rights and responsibilities as a resident
• Have the right to voice or file grievances
See Resources to Get You Started (on page 6) and
Useful Tools (on page 7) for checklists and references to help you choose a community.
Location
Location may be of key importance, in order to be
near friends, family, and familiar, quality medical
providers. If possible, consider a community within
a 20- to 30-minute drive, in order to maintain contact and encourage visitors.
Services and Costs
Assisted living communities usually charge a base
rate which covers a certain set of the services.
Other services are offered at an additional cost. The
fees for services vary considerably by community
size, and the number of services included in the
base rate vary, impacting the overall cost of care.
As residents age, they may experience a reduction
in their capacities and require additional services
over time that were not required when they entered the community. Check with the community
to find out which of these are included in the base
rate and which ones may be offered à la carte:
• Care management and monitoring
• Help with activities of daily living
• Housekeeping and laundry
• Medication management
• Recreational activities
• Security
• Transportation
• Two meals per day or more
• Increase in frequency and time for personal care
• Incontinence care
• Laundry service beyond basic service
• Meals delivered to living quarters
• Specialized care for dementia
Find out if there are different levels of care. If
someone needs more services or care, how would
that be determined? Would they be able to move
to a higher level of care within the same community? Would the family be notified? When and
how is it determined that a resident is no longer
appropriate for the community?
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The cost for an assisted living community can vary
dramatically by location. The national private pay
base rate for assisted living is about $3,031 per
month, or $36,372 annually,7 and some may charge
an additional admission fee. Most medical insurance, including Medicare, does not provide any reimbursement for assisted living. Assisted living is a
covered service in many long-term care insurance
policies, as it is becoming an increasingly popular
long-term care service option. Many comprehensive long-term care insurance policies cover costs
associated with room and board in assisted living,
but there can be other charges based on the needs
of the individual. Individuals who have a policy
should check with their insurance company and
review their plan to determine how benefits are
paid for assisted living services.
Although the majority of residents pay out-ofpocket, a number of states provide subsidies or
Medicaid waivers that cover assisted living for
those who meet Medicaid income and asset
guidelines.8 Medicaid waivers enable residents of
the state to receive community-based long-term
care services, such as assisted living. Information
on community-based care can be obtained by contacting your Area Agency on Aging or State Office
on Aging, or contacting the federally funded
Eldercare Locator at 800-677-1116, or online at
www.eldercare.gov. (See Resources to Get You
Started on page 6.)
Be sure to ask about billing, bed reservations,
refunds, and payments. Take the time to carefully
review the contract. Do you understand everything
in it? Does the contract specify all the services that
your family member needs and how frequently
they are provided? Are health services included?
Which ones? Does the contract address levels of
care? Take into account your loved one’s resources
and the amount of time he or she is expected to be
in an assisted living community. It is always good
to speak to a financial professional and an elder law
attorney when planning for long-term care.
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Size
Assisted living residences may have as few as three
rooms or as many as 200. Most have between 25
and 120 units.9 A smaller residence may be in a
traditional home in a residential neighborhood,
offering residents a room. A larger residence
may be a community, offering apartments with
a central dining area and recreation areas. If the
community is spread out, is the staff available to
help accommodate individuals who may need assistance with walking or using their wheelchairs?
What type of setting would your family member
prefer? Bigger does not always mean better and
small does not confirm that your family member
will receive more care.
Staffing
As you are looking at different communities, you
will want to compare the staff. The attitudes of the
staff will tell you a lot about the residence. You may
also want to look into the turnover rate of staff, and
note how they interact with residents. If you visit
at different times during the day you will be able to
observe how the staff members balance the residents’ needs with the competing demands, and how
they carry out house rules and routines. Also, you
will want to know whether there is a nurse on staff
for medications and assessments. If not, determine
who is responsible for the process and evaluating
the care needs of the residents.
Medical and Specialized Care
For individuals who have a cognitive impairment
like Alzheimer’s or a similar disorder, and who
require supervision for personal safety, you will
need to find a setting that is dedicated to providing specialized care. You will need to consider your
family member’s mental and physical health needs,
and consider whether the environment will provide
the needed stimulation to help him or her thrive
emotionally, and with dignity.
You will want to know what services and systems
are in place to provide your loved one with adequate health care oversight, monitoring, and access
to emergency medical care. What transportation
is available to assist residents with getting to their
doctors? Is there a therapeutic exercise or fitness
program? What are the procedures for getting emergency medical attention? How often do residents get
health care monitoring? If, for example, your loved
one takes a blood thinner, it will be important to
make sure that the staff of the assisted living community will be able to arrange for a lab to come to
the residence to draw blood, and then coordinate
the necessary follow-up with the doctor, and if
necessary, the pharmacy. As a family member, you
are the link, the one who can assure that your loved
one’s health care needs are recognized and appropriately addressed.
How to Evaluate the
Quality of Care
Since assisted living communities are overseen by
state governments the regulations vary from state
to state. Ask whether the community is licensed in
your state. To learn about the regulations in your
state, you can download the Assisted Living State
Regulatory Review, at www.ncal.org/about/2008_
reg_review.pdf, which is published annually by the
National Center on Assisted Living (www.NCAL.
org). This comprehensive guide summarizes the
regulations in each state and reviews a wide range
of important requirements on such issues as medication administration, staffing, and move-in and
move-out conditions. To obtain a printed copy, call
202-898-2855. Another way to check on the community is to contact your local Long-Term Care
Ombudsman to see if there are any complaints on
file against the community. See www.ltcombuds
man.org or call 202-332-2275 to obtain an
ombudsman in your state.
Additionally, you will want to use your senses when
you visit the communities. You and your loved one
will be able to observe how different staff interact
with the residents, whether the meals are appetizing
and prepared to accommodate dietary needs, and
whether there are scheduled activities that will meet
your loved one’s social needs. You may also want to
make one unannounced visit. Notice whether there
are any disagreeable odors or high noise levels, as
well as the overall condition of the community.
Making a Successful Transition
With any move, there is always a period of adjustment. Give your family member time and stay
involved and visible in his or her life. Learn the
names of people to contact for giving and getting
information about your family member. Be sure to
praise good work and show appreciation to the staff.
Find out procedures for sharing your concerns, and
don’t be afraid to speak up when you see a change
that concerns you. Individuals whose families are
involved in a positive way generally have higher
morale and receive better care.
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Resources to Get
You Started
Internet Sites
AARP
Books and Publications
AARP offers several assisted living resources that
can be downloaded and printed. They include:
• Assisted Living Facility Evaluation Checklist
• Assisted Living: Weighing the Options, a guide
CHOOSING AN ASSISTED LIVING FACILITY:
CONSIDERATIONS FOR MAKING THE RIGHT
DECISION, 2nd Edition
that can be used as a starting point to determine
if assisted living will meet your long-term care
needs or those of a loved one. It also provides a
listing of other resources.
This booklet provides an overview of various areas
related to assisted living, tips for getting started if you
are considering assisted living, and important questions to ask when evaluating facilities. It is produced
by the Consumer Consortium on Assisted Living
(CCAL), with support provided by the MetLife
Mature Market Institute. Copies are available for
$12.95 each (including shipping and handling). To
order, write to CCAL, 2342 Oak Street, Falls Church,
VA 22046. Make checks payable to CCAL. You may
also download and print an order form from their
Web site at www.ccal.org, or call 703-533-8121 to
obtain a printed copy.
• What Is Assisted Living Housing? This article
provides an overview of assisted living and the
services it provides.
These resources can be accessed at:
www.aarp.org/families/housing_choices/
assisted_living/
AARP also provides several free online seminars
related to family caregiving. One of these seminars,
Housing Choices, explains the different types of
assisted living facilities and the services they offer.
It also provides a guide to evaluating facilities. This
seminar and the others on caregiving can be found
at: www.aarp.org/learntech/family_care/.
HOW TO CARE FOR AGING PARENTS
This book is a useful starting point for those finding
themselves in a caregiver’s role for parents or any
older relative. It provides information on health care
issues, caregiver concerns, community- and facilitybased services, as well as an extensive listing of helpful agencies and organizations with contact information to assist caregivers. Morris, Virginia, Workman
Publishing Company; October, 2004, $18.95,
ISBN: 0761134263
THE ASSISTED LIVING FEDERATION OF
AMERICA (ALFA)
The Assisted Living Federation of America’s Web
site contains a searchable assisted living facility
provider directory, state rule, and regulation
changes, and new developments in the industry.
ALFA also produces a downloadable booklet,
Guide to Choosing an Assisted Living Residence,
that can be accessed at www.alfa.org/files/
public/ALFAchecklist.pdf.
WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE NEEDS
NURSING HOME, ASSISTED LIVING, OR
IN-HOME CARE
A comprehensive book, written by psychologists,
that covers essential material in easy-to-understand
language. Included is a comprehensive resource
section, checklists, and worksheets. Bornstein, R.
and Languirand, M. (2009). New York, NY:
Newmarket Press, Revised edition, $16.95,
ISBN: 1557048169
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ASSISTED LIVING COST CALCULATOR1
Family and prospective residents may use this worksheet to estimate the monthly cost of needed services. Not
all items may be applicable to your situation. Space is provided to add other charges not listed.
$______________________ Entrance and/or Initial Assessment Fee
$______________________ Selected Unit and Basic Service Package
$______________________ Cost for Meals
$______________________ Cost for Housekeeping
$______________________ Cost for Personal Laundry Service
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$______________________ Cost for Linen Service
$______________________ Cost for Medication Management or Assistance
$______________________ Cost for Personal Care Assistance (bathing, dressing, eating, etc.)
$______________________ Cost for Recreational Field Trips
$______________________ Cost for Transportation
$______________________ Cost for Telephone Service
$______________________ Cost for Cable Television
$______________________ Beauty Shop Charges
$______________________ Other (specify)
$______________________ Other (specify)
$______________________ Other (specify)
$______________________ Total Estimated Monthly Charges
1(Taken
wholly and in part from National Center for Assisted Living and the American Health Care
Association at www.longtermcareliving.com/assess/al/assisted7.cfm.)
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ASSISTED LIVING CHECKLIST
When you are looking for an assisted living community for a loved one, please consider using the following
checklist to help you make the best choice.
• Moving In
What does the moving in process entail?
What are the paperwork requirements and the
time frames involved?
How is the initial assessment managed?
Who completes the assessment?
• Service Planning
Are the family and the resident involved in
the service planning process?
How often are residents’ needs assessed?
Who completes the assessment?
Are there special programs for memory-impaired
residents and residents suffering with dementia?
Are there accommodations for memory-impaired
residents to be outside and exercise?
How are emergency situations managed?
What is the protocol for such events?
What happens if the health care needs of a
resident change?
Under what conditions are residents asked to
move if there is a change in health status?
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• Services and Activities
Does staff assist residents in administration of
medication?
Does the residence use a particular pharmacy?
If applicable, does that pharmacy participate in
the individual’s Medicare Part D prescription
drug plan?
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Are there professional nursing services on-site?
If not, does the staff assist residents and families
in making arrangements through a home health
agency?
Are the services of a physical, occupational, or
speech therapist available or arranged?
Is transportation provided for medical
appointments and recreational purposes?
Is there a fee?
Are there resident and family councils? How often
do they meet?
What are the suggestion, complaint, or grievance
procedures?
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What recreational and spiritual activities are available?
Obtain or review a copy of the activities calendar.
• Staff
Ask about the residence’s staffing patterns and
philosophy about staffing.
What training and qualifications are required
for staff?
Are there on-going training programs provided
for staff?
Observe staff and resident interactions.
Are they positive? Courteous?
• Cost and Fees
What is included in the basic monthly cost?
Ask for a written copy.
Does the residence have a written schedule of fees
for extra services? If so, request a copy.
Under what circumstances might the fees change?
How much notice is given if there is a fee increase?
Is there a security deposit? What is the refund
policy?
Can service agreements and/or contracts be
amended or modified?
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• Dining and Food Services
Does the residence accommodate special diets?
Does a dietician or nutritionist review
the menus?
Request or review copies of the menus.
What are the criteria for residents to eat meals in
their rooms?
• Living Space and Accommodations
Are the resident rooms furnished or unfurnished?
What is the policy about personal belongings?
Are there patios and courtyards available for
resident use? Is there an area for resident
gardening?
Does the residence provide security?
Are pets allowed to reside in the residence?
If so, are there additional fees and/or deposits?
If not, are pets allowed to visit?
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• Licensure and Certification
Is the residence licensed? Ask to review the last
licensing/certification report.
If the state requires the administrator to be
licensed or certified, is it current?
Does the staff actively participate in trade or
professional associations?
• Safety
Does the residence have an emergency
preparedness plan?
How are the emergency and evacuation plans
reviewed with the resident after admission?
Does the residence have a fire sprinkler system
throughout the residence?
Where are the smoke detectors located?
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LONG TERM CARE COMMUNITY COALITION
The Long Term Care Community Coalition is an organization that advocates for the elderly on issues of
state and national policies that affect care. They publish two consumer guides on assisted living, Thinking
of Moving to an Assisted Living Residence? and Resident’s Guide for Assisted Living: Maintain Your Independence, Choice, & Control, that can be downloaded
at www.assisted-living411.org. Copies are available
in limited quantities. To cover postage and handling,
send $1.50 per guide to: LTCCC, 242 West 30th
Street, Suite 306, New York, NY 10001.
NATIONAL ACADEMY OF ELDER LAW
ATTORNEYS (NAELA)
NAELA (www.naela.org) is the organization for
attorneys that deal with the many issues facing older
adults and the disabled. NAELA attorneys can assist
their clients with estate planning, long-term care
issues, power-of-attorney, wills, and trusts. Within
the site is a search field to find an elder law attorney
in your area. There is also a very helpful question
and answer section that will assist in the search for
an elder law attorney. You can reach NAELA by
phone at 520-881-4005, or via mail at: NAELA,
1604 N. Country Club Road, Tucson, AZ 85716-3102.
NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF AREA
AGENCIES ON AGING (n4a)
The n4a (www.n4a.org) is the umbrella organization for the 655 Area Agencies on Aging throughout
the United States which provide information and
services, and coordinate and administer programs
for older adults. The federally funded Eldercare
Locator, established by the U.S. Administration on
Aging in 1991, and administered by n4a in partnership with the National Association of State Units on
Aging, provides callers with information about local
services by zip code. Trained professionals, including a Spanish-speaking information specialist and
a 150-language line service, answer callers to the
Eldercare Locator. Call 800-677-1116, 9:00 a.m.8:00 p.m. EST, or go to www.eldercare.gov. TDD/
TTY access is also available with instructions
provided online.
NATIONAL CENTER FOR ASSISTED LIVING
(NCAL)
This organization’s Web site, www.ncal.org, provides information for consumers on assisted living,
assisted living news, educational news, links to
additional assisted living resources, as well as a
consumer checklist that may be downloaded.
Useful Tools
The following tools will help you evaluate assisted
living facilities:
• Assisted Living Cost Calculator
• Assisted Living Checklist
Endnotes
1
National Center for Assisted Living, Guiding Principles for
Assisted Living. www.ncal.org/resource/GuidingPrincipals
forAssistedLiving.pdf
2
Gross, Jane, “Under One Roof, Aging Together Yet Alone,”
New York Times, January 30, 2005. www.nytimes.com/
2005/01/30/national/30assisted.html
3
American Association of Homes & Services for the
Aging, Aging Services: The Facts. www.aahsa.org/article.
aspx?id=74#GeneralFacts
4
National Center for Assisted Living. www.ncal.org/about/
resident.cfm
5
Ibid
6
American Health Care Association and National Center for
Assisted Living. www.longtermcareliving.com/assess/al/
assisted3.cfm
7
MetLife Mature Market Institute, The MetLife Market Survey
of Nursing Home & Assisted Living Costs, October 2008.
8
ALFA, Guide to Choosing an Assisted Living Residence.
www.alfa.org/files/public/ALFAchecklist.pdf
9
Ibid
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ABOUT THE AUTHORS
Since You Care guides are prepared by the MetLife
Mature Market Institute in cooperation with the
National Alliance for Caregiving and MetLife’s
Care Coordinators.
MetLife Care Coordinators are available to
MetLife’s long-term care customers and their caregivers to help identify and resolve caregiving questions and concerns through counseling and referral.
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Established in 1997, the Mature Market Institute
(MMI) is MetLife’s research organization and
a recognized thought leader on the multidimensional and multi-generational issues of aging
and longevity. MMI’s groundbreaking research,
gerontology expertise, national partnerships,
and educational materials work to expand the
knowledge and choices for those in, approaching,
or caring for those in the mature market.
National Alliance for Caregiving
Established in 1996, the National Alliance for
Caregiving is a nonprofit coalition of national
organizations that focuses on issues of family caregiving across the life span. The Alliance was created to conduct research, do policy analysis, develop
national programs, and increase public awareness
of family caregiving issues.
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This guide offers general advice, however, it is not
a substitute for consultation with an appropriate
professional. Please see a health care professional,
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determining how the information and recommendations
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