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hey Todd I started to work in a marketing agency were quite big about a thousand people but still almost everybody knows each other how would you game at work I still haven't done it till yet because usually my game is pretty direct but I felt that when I start gaming direct at the workplace that it would backfire what are your thoughts on this I agree do not do not do not game direct at a small workplace let me tell you what happens when you do that you get a reputation and it makes it hard to game there and it makes it hard to work there and you might get fired don't [ __ ] do that ok however workplace is or any kind of small social circle is the same answer I would give for a small college right I went to a college of 2000 students so similar kind of a thing what you want to do is be social first sexual second alright you want to develop a positive reputation you ended up a reputation as being friends with everyone being cool with everyone you want to talk to every single girl talk to the ugly ones talk to the fat ones talk to the [ __ ] ones talk to every single girl and it doesn't mean you have to flirt with or hit on every single girl at all in fact publicly you should not be hitting on anybody now flirting teasing you absolutely can do right you also should be sort of like bro teasing with the guys all right you should be just the guy who is has banter in general and just is social with everybody my first suggestion step one say hello and goodbye to every girl say hello and goodbye to every relatively social relatively cool guy develop a reputation as a cool social guy alright from there what's gonna happen first of all if you say hi invited people after the second third fourth time you say hi or bye to them they're gonna start saying hi invite to you first they're gonna start creating conversation with you once you've said hi to someone like three times you're in the elevator with everything oh hey how was your weekend and they're still in a conversation with you you don't even have to open their opening you because you were just a little bit patient and that's what you want you want like okay the two places in game that are uber gaming that you want to like they're a little bit trihard and they're a little bit like it's clear you are gaming is opening and closing okay so if you can make opening happen organically if you can make opening happen to you instead of making it have to happen by you you've just done yourself a massive servicing game especially like you mentioned in that small environments we're going to get a reputation if you are opening a lot right but the advantage of the small environment is you're going to see the people over and over again so you don't have to have an incredible conversation with them the first time you see them if you exchange three words with them good job you made progress you exchanged five with them five words with them the next time good job you made progress be a little bit patient alright ideally what's gonna happen because you're building a positive reputation people are saying good things about you girls are gonna start to notice you and get crushes on you from afar without you having to do much right and then they're gonna be talking to you it should be very very easy over time to eventually invite them out so rather than trying to get laid today try and have a great reputation that's gonna get you great results for months or years in the future also just as a thought if you are someone who does have game I would actually err on the side of not gaming in the workplace but using the workplace socialization to help your game in other ways so for example if you game girls at your work that can come back to you in nasty ways however those girls the hot ones oftentimes have hot friends if you're going out with them socially you meet their hot friends you sleep with the hot friends well that really can't come back to bite you in the ass work wise all right that's a much much safer approach also if you want to have a strategy where you do date multiple girls or you are a bit player ish in terms of like you know you really are doing approaches and going hard you're really gonna be better off distancing that from your work a little bit but that doesn't mean you can't gain a ton from being social at work it doesn't mean you can't gain a ton from getting that good good reputation and good sort of social status going on and also if you are gaming your workplace in the right way meaning a social one not a sexual trihard one it may actually help you in your career as well if you are actually friends with everybody when the time comes for someone to ask you know who do you want to bring into this team you'll probably get mentioned when someone says who do you want it who wants to be promoted you know if there's a chance that you're gonna stand out more in someone's mind and you're actually gonna get a leg up work wise too so rather than it being a detraction from your work doing things the right way should actually be good for your work and good for your game but again the key thing is patience then avoiding the awkward opens also avoid the awkward closes at work right say you talked to someone for a few moments or like a few minutes and then she gets dragged away to go do work don't be like hey no no two seconds wait wait wait I gotta get your number real fast you're gonna see her anyway chill relax she's not going anywhere all right so so take your time be patient and instead of trying to like [ __ ] one girl today try and actually like build something for yourself where you're gonna have good social status you can you know be with whatever girl you want you can build a good relationship maybe you'll be with the hottest girl at your work over time all right so that's kind of my general advice take your time play it slow and you know just good things will come to you with the right steps trust the process all right so that's a little bit on gaming at work also again for gaming it in high school gave me in college gaming in any small social environment it's gonna be very very much the same because your reputation is absolutely everything ok so just be building that reputation and building the reputation it will it will provide for you in the future all right so let's answer that question if you want your question answered as well put it down below and be sure and subscribe to this channel so you don't miss out on any of these wonderful answers that I'm you know giving out to you guys all right thank you very much I'll see you next time