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what's going on everybody it is coach greg adams and i'm back in here with the ass coach greg adams channel shout out to the coach gang for being in here appreciate you and check out my two books the evolution and the free agent lifestyle the links are in the description box below let's get right into it and this is a question from we're going to call him sk shout out to you he said his name at the bottom but we'll just call him sk shout out to you he asked a pretty detailed question but let me just skim through it he's 30 years old from india he's withdrawn himself from dating and he's following the mgtow lifestyle and he says uh currently i'm in no relationship never been married and he read my book the free agent lifestyle it's very helpful he says but he has some questions that he wants me to address personal questions related to uh his life and he mentions the fact that he smokes the doobies all right he likes to smoke the doobies blunts whatever it is and he says he's been a beer addict for five years it's under control right now he drinks two times a week maybe a beer each and he smokes some you know the spliffs sometimes but he wants to know he how can he permanently quit the next question he asked is says uh i'm not doing very well in my career that could be related to question number one but he says i don't have much money or skill but i'm not going to give up on my desires to become successful and he says can you suggest how i should begin what skills did i should i learn first or which business shall i get started please suggest and then question number three and we'll try to handle all of this in a 10-minute fashion how to kill the relationship and sex thirst i still sometimes end up wanting women how to kill this desire permanently shout out to usk and let's deal with uh number two let's deal with the second one because that probably can fill in what you need to be doing in your first and third question but you say my career is not going well you don't have any money or much money and much skill so you're trying to figure out where you need to go and you want me to suggest what careers that you should get in well i can't really tell you what is going to work for you but you really have to try it out you have to try it out i tried out every formal job that you can think about and i have to figure out what's going to work for me best what's going to keep me motivated what's going to keep me inspired what's going to keep me there is it just the money or the paycheck or is it that i'm passionate about it and i talked about this in the conquer course which uh is not available anymore for the most part but at some particular point i'm going to expound on that probably around the spring but here's the deal when you go into these careers you got to try them all out and figure out do you have a passion for this and do you want to excel at it or if you're just going to coast from age 30 to 65 collecting paychecks with no skill now you can start with certifications that's going to be probably your easiest bet because it's your easiest point of entry in your job market and today there's a lot of need for labor there's a lot of need for skill in blue collar fields so look at that look at uh related to uh truck driving maybe get your cdl there's a lot of other things that guys in the comment section can give you uh hints about but uh plumbing there's a lot of things where you can make a lot of money doing things that most men don't want to do because they want to sit in the corner office in the air conditioning but let's say you want to be in the career field you're not motivated by that you don't want to be a plumber and make six figures you want to work your way up the corporate ladder well that might be work that might work fine for you but it may take you a hell of a long time to get to that particular point but you have to figure that out uh on your own maybe sales i always suggest guys get in the sales fields all right learn how to sell suits learn how to sell shoes learn how to talk to customers and interact with them in order to sell them now the jobs that you have now may not be the jobs that you're going to have 5 10 15 20 years from now but those things that you learn from those jobs you can take to the next job and say you want to start your own business you got to learn how to sell maybe you want to be uh you know getting involved in some sort of passive income got to learn how to sell got to learn how to talk to people gotta take those skills that you learn all right maybe you do uh you know you work with your hands you learn how to drive a truck you can drive a dump truck and learn how to rehab houses there's a lot of things that you're gonna tie together so one career field that you're choosing right now at age 30 doesn't necessarily mean you're going to be in that career field years from now but you can take those skills into the next career so that's what you need to be focusing on here on out all right let's deal with that now let's deal with the weed and the beer all right i'm not a big wheat smoker i think you know there's a lot of people that say they will support weed i think it's a demotivator it's a drug that will make you demotivated they say there's no side effects to it but there are people that smoke weed aren't able to balance that out for me i know it wouldn't work for me and i know what's gonna work for me uh uh what's not gonna work for me i'm not gonna do so you're not motivated your money's not right that's the one you need to kick but are you saying how do you do it i mean you need to maybe seek that out yourself i don't know any programs related to getting rid of that but i do know people uh that have done alcoholics anonymous some 12-step programs narcotics anonymous all right they've done those programs and some of them they it helped them and they got on those streaks where they say i've been 200 days sober i've been two years sober uh sobriety really helps i've never been into drugs not very much in the alcohol so being sober makes you make good decisions it prevents you from parking your car somewhere friday night and you can't find it saturday morning uh it prevents you from waking up in the bed with somebody shaped like a pillsbury biscuit can and you found out you busted a roar a big old nut up inside of her all right it helps prevent that when you're sober and it keeps you clear uh and your vision clear when you're not participating in that so find the best way to get rid of that let's talk about kicking the the uh you say killing the relationship in sex thirst all right uh number one if you're following mgtow if you're following free agent lifestyle what i'm gonna tell you is this and this is learn this pretty well you're never going to kill that it is in you permanently you're biologically conditioned for that uh we have 200 000 years plus or you can go a million years plus as a species um designed to procreate and bone women that's what we're designed to do that's what science designed us to do nobody cares about love romance or relationships and none of that biology don't care biology wants you to bust nuts in women and women that's what they want to do is procreate so that's what you're designed to do you're never going to kill it what you have to understand is if you're able to manage it if you're able to regulate it if you're able to make sure it doesn't take over priority over everything else that's when you're going to get the clarity and focus you need uh to get wherever you want in life if you don't do that and your priority here is to have relationships and love and companionship and cuddles and bus nuts and 49ers and that becomes your priority let me tell you where your life is gonna go it ain't gonna go anywhere fast i don't know a man on this work that has won in life financially by prioritizing women i don't know one guy that has i know a lot of guys that have lost a whole bunch because of a woman i know a lot of guys that had that need to busting up lost their entire life i don't know many guys winning because of women most rich guys that let's just say dan bilzerian just for example now you see he promotes having a lot of these women around him that's not how he made his money but that's damn for sure how you gonna lose his money so that's where you guys got to understand where uh when you're able to control that urge that thirst to need that need that need to have that relationship to have that feeling and you know it is not overall going to benefit you but it's going to cost you right that's when you're able to control that urge that's when you're going to thrive okay that's when you're going to thrive it's hard for men in their late 20s and 30s to do that because against you you have a testosterone right it's pumping you it's telling you find any piece of booty all right bend it over right bus inside of it that's what the world's telling you that's what your biology is telling you to do so you're never gonna kill that urge what you need to do is manage it and the best thing you can do is manage the expectations your own expectations as a result of it a lot of guys are going to feed you bull crap about how you don't need to quit how do you need to prioritize women how do you need to pedestalize them how you need to run up on 100 women yo that's not your problem see your problem is not women your problem is motivation your problem is substance and listening to these clowns sell that to you as a solution and they're capitalizing on your testosterone field uh you know biological need to procreate and bust nuts and they're capitalizing on you and they're leading you to the slaughter that's not going to benefit you in 10 years it ain't going to benefit you in 20 years but i guarantee you it will destroy you in half the time so you need to manage it and do your best to manage it in order to get where you need to go stop listening to clowns stop listening to your so-called dating coaches all they're going to do is lead you to the assault you need to listen to men that have been on all sides of the fence and can tell you what an investment in the woman is gonna get you and what the rate of return is the rate of return is nil is zero and half the time you're in the red dealing with them if that's where you want to be with your already lack of motivation self capitalizing we're depending on substance bro listening to them clowns are going to get you in a worse position okay you got to separate yourself uh manage your substance abuse get some goals get your priorities straight in your life and understand that women are a dessert they're a side dish to the main entree the main entree is life women they're just dessert you don't eat dessert every day you might need you might have a desire for dessert every day you certainly don't need to eat dessert every day but it's nice to have a little bit of dessert but don't make the dessert the main course anyway that's my video for the day we probably went a little bit long but that's my video for today i appreciate you being for being here shout out to the coach gang and i'm gonna be back in here with more videos and i'm out peace