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hey everybody welcome back to my channel so if you are a new welcome go ahead and hit the subscribe button cuz I'm dropping videos for the rest of August yeah so let's get right into it so if you clicked on this video you're probably like how in the world did you get a divorce in 20 days like wait I do that well this is not clickbait whatsoever I definitely did get my divorce in 20 days and for two free so if you are interested on how exactly I accomplished that go ahead and stay tuned alright so you guys so for a lot of you guys who know I was married to my daughter's father legally for two years legally for real like nine months so we were married and well if you want that story I'm sure it will pop up somewhere I made a video about it some years ago so feel free to watch that video later but in this video I am going to give you basically to the I mean I guess the details on how I was able to get my divorce in 20 nights so where do we start so first of all I already had my ex-husband on child support while we were married as soon as I found out that his other daughter was about to be born I went ahead and filed the child support papers we weren't living together and in my mind the marriage was pretty much over like you have a whole other kid so the marriage is over so I went ahead and filed for that so this already one document taken care of so you guys like this is all pretty much like step by step in the order of which things actually did occur I think he thought if he came to the child support office with me that we would potentially maybe get back to it back together just the way he was talking I guess he saw hope but so anyway um yes so he was already on child support so I guess when he realized there was no hope that I was not getting back with him now we were not gonna make this work he went ahead and got with his wife they used with now so anyway fast forward um there was an incident between us that I was able to file a protective order a protective order is usually filed when there's some case of family violence and there was so I was able to get a two-year protective order against him and his current wife back then me and this man hurt me and him weren't still married at this time though so I yes I had a protective order against him while we were married but we clearly were not together so and you guys are probably like what in the world yes unfortunately these are true events but it all really worked out perfectly so anyway we got I got the protective order against them and the protective order was good for two years so when I decided so like let's backtrack I had a child support order that he already signed and agreed to I had a protective order against him and her for five Family Violence and it just it all just kind of worked out that way it wasn't like premeditated because if you look at the timeline you know when the child support order was processed versus when the protective order was processed is a stretch like it really is a stretch of time like long periods up so none of this was premeditated it's just the way it all lined and hangs together and the way it just happened so anyway um yeah never get a protective order against them for two full years so it was done in November of 2016 so it actually just ended in November of 2018 which was not that long ago at the protective order and I was dead set on the fact that me and him were gonna be divorced before my 22nd birthday Eva so I would have been turning 22 February of 2017 and I was like I'm not going into the new year married to this person and that's a lot of the reason why I changed my name my last name back to my last name because I'm one of those people like I believe in representation and if I feel like I'm being like well God is just we have a child together for a night I feel like you you like my representation so this this name don't belong to me like at all some I was able to file all the paperwork for the divorce which of course I did my divorce completely solo I did not have a lawyer I did not have funds so let me kind of explain how that all took place I live in Austin so of course I filed in Travis every single paperwork in Chaves County because I lived Austin so I went down to downtown with it a lot law library and they have different packets so they have packet a packet is when you have knot on one piece of paperwork you know through the courts filled out so you don't have a child support order you don't have like a protective order you don't have any paperwork you would get packet packet B is you have one you know let's say you have kids and you have child support already done you would get packet me I've had pakad C which was the thinnest packet ever because I already have child support order that was already put in place way before the divorce my father divorced in November as well and then I also had a protective order so this person wasn't you know allowed to come near me blah see blah we didn't have anything together so I didn't have like a car that had his name on it nothing that we had was joint so like the bank accounts nothing we didn't have anything in each other's name so it just all just flew like so I had the smallest packet some the way I was able to you know do all this for free was because of you know they have what is it called financial circumstances yeah I was a fresh doodle assistant like fresh I think I was making like $13 not a lot of money so you know I didn't have no money like I didn't have any money of course I wasn't getting a child support you know that's very cliche people think because they're on child support that the person was paying the child support does not necessarily how that works but anyway some was that broke and I had all the proofs to show that I was dead broke so of course I got granted a waiver where I didn't have to pay the $500 in order to file their divorce papers I didn't have to pay which worked out great so since I had all my paperwork you know aligned you we was signed by the right people I filed it and I didn't have to pay the $500 so because I had a sheriff you know serve him I didn't serve him because I had a protective order so I had a sheriff from his county serve him because we live in two different counties yeah I had a sheriff from his county serve him and the difference between serving somebody with you know the paperwork from you know that you they can say that they never got the paperwork they like they can literally make it go for like months in eternity and if you don't get the paperwork signed and they don't return it you will still be married to that person but you guys you have to play smart and not hard I knew that me getting him served by an actual sheriff or constable I don't remember which one but serving him personally that that person that sheriff that constable will say that he got the paperwork so that goes to the courts the courts understand that he did get the paperwork this is not he said she said this person got the paperwork so from that point on that person has 20 days to respond to sign you know the paperwork and send it back if they do not respond within that 20 days then the divorce is granted in what is it the the petitioners whatever the petitioner was the petitioner gets because you know they didn't respond so of course we still had to go to court to get a final decree so of course my ex-husband did not show up he did not file any paperwork he didn't sign it even saying he received it he made a Facebook post though I heard about the Facebook post but yeah so since he did not sign it he did not send it back in the hospital did make him very well known that this person did get the paperwork the divorce was granted all in my favor I was able to walk away walk away completely and utterly with no anything like I didn't have to go to court it wasn't anything like well I did have to actually go to court I had to go to court so if anything I'm the one that really did kind of pay for everything in the sense of I had to take off work so I had to take off work be downtown for hours literally hours but I was I had already put in the atmosphere I was not going into 2017 married I was going into 2017 being free because how am I getting new husband if I'm still married in just don't work like that you can't get any less but if you're still legally married to somebody you ain't free you still in bondage yeah I'm not saying you should go out and get a protector word against anybody just to speed up a divorce process no this is just kind of how the turns of events happen for me I mean that's just the way it happens for me unfortunately I had to do that because typically it takes 60 days at least in the state of Texas it takes 60 days for a divorce to be final because people go through you know reaches what is it reconciliation or they change their minds essentially about you know giving divorce so that's why they had that little time frame but for me it was 20 days because I have protective order against you I left a long time ago I don't want like there's nothing to reconsider from me so yeah I didn't have to pay the court fees literally a lot of had to pay with was with my time which to me I find more priceless certain money any day because you can't get time back you can get all the money in the world back yeah if I would have paid $500 I would have got that back eventually in some shape wave form whatever like money is not a huge thing to me because I'm gonna get it back like it can be remade and maybe even a faster way possible I don't know but it's never been a big deal to me but I can't get my time back but it is what it is I feel like you know it was definitely worth it Spence because I was able to you know be free like be happy in Who I am and develop my character and yes that's how I got a divorce in 20 days legally legally uh but yeah like I said I'm not promoting anybody doing it that way that's just the way life took me and I did it that way because of course that's just what's going on at the type stuff but everything happens what happens for a reason I feel like God was like okay they're like you know you are supposed to be divorced like you I brought you all together to have Bailey and so this is it so therefore you know let's cut ties in it happen fast and hurry yeah I ended up getting and even simply y'all y'all see how thick this paper is this is my divorce decree okay this thing is I think like a hundred pages or something I don't know but typically you have to pay like 10 cents or something per page or something like that I don't remember like I said does that fit in 2016 long time ago so I didn't even have to end up paying for the final divorce decree because of the way the tournaments just habit so all right I really hope this helps somebody like I said I'm not promoting getting a protective order unless truly needed I'm not yeah this is just the way my situation has been and I hope this helps somebody so you guys stay blessed you guys stay encouraging snake in the park you [Music]