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[Music] [Applause] [Music] whether you find yourself falling out of love with a partner or questioning if you ever really had love for them in the first place it's a tough judgment call when you begin to ask yourself do i really love them luckily there are a few signs that show you in fact aren't in love which we will be discussing today welcome back psychos today we'll be discussing 10 signs you're not really in love and don't forget to like and subscribe to our channel as well as click the notification bell so that you never miss a video number one you put a mental expiration date on your relationship if you're having thoughts like i'll see how this goes for another few months or you can't fathom thinking of a long-term future with this person you have some questioning to do maybe you're even trying to look for a flow in their personality as a breaking point where you can finally decide that this isn't what you want anymore this can cause you to pinpoint issues of the relationship on them and make big fusses out of things that aren't that big of a deal this is you trying to rationalize the deep feelings of not being that emotionally interested in them in the first place if you're finding yourself planning for futures with them and not by your side you can be sure you're probably not as interested in this person as you once believed number two their needs are an inconvenience to you when you truly love someone their needs become your own without any hesitation in every relationship both partners come bearing their own sets of needs and wants in a healthy relationship both partners are willing to be there for each other's needs however if you find that your partner's needs are just a total inconvenience you're either selfish or uninterested there are definitely times when a partner's needs can exceed how much we're willing to put in to avoid burning ourselves out but when it comes time when they need a shoulder to cry on or are listening here and you feel like they're asking way too much you can be sure that this is a sign you probably don't love them number three you share all their private moments with your friends do you find yourself talking about your partner and his or her life with your friends as if it's an episode of a soap opera if you view their lives as a commodity of entertainment you should begin questioning if you genuinely care about this person talking about your significant other with friends is common but when you begin sharing private details and attaching your negative opinions on their life decisions as if they aren't your life partner who knew support you probably don't support them nor do you view them as a life partner love is about privacy trust and support all of which are completely lacking in this type of situation number four you avoid bringing them home to your parents bringing someone home to your parents is an exciting aspect of having a new relationship with someone who you can see yourself with a long term so if you're in a newer relationship and find yourself avoiding this milestone you should start asking yourself why you're avoiding it because it could be that you don't see the point meaning that you don't see them being around for too long if you're in a long-term relationship and find yourself avoiding bringing your partners to your friend's function when you used to enjoy having them as your plus one it could be because you're losing feelings for them and would rather not entertain the idea of having them with you which of course is a sign that you don't really love them number five you find ways to keep busy without them maybe you're staying late after work to avoid spending the evening with your partner or you could find yourself making weekend plans with your friends every single weekend to avoid having to feel obligated to spend time with your partner these are all definite signs that you have no love for them as love would have you wanting to balance your life in a way that ensures you're making time for the other person this can even be finding tasks to do around the house that would excuse you from having any downtime to connect with your partner you have no interest in the things that you used to do together in fact they seem completely underwhelming number six you don't voluntarily call them or text them a true relationship is based off of desired communication and should rarely be accompanied by feelings of avoiding communication with your partner when you're in love you genuinely want to know how your partner's day is going and how they're feeling their happiness is your happiness so when you find yourself initiating the first text or phone call and when faced with replying or picking up the phone you're uninterested you don't love them this goes back to the idea of the lack of empathy towards their feelings meaning you have a lack of love towards them if they are calling or texting you don't want to be bothered or even if it's just their attempt at showing you their love quite frankly you just find them a little bit annoying when before you would eagerly await their texts and their calls throughout the day number seven their issues are unjustifiable while yours are justified when you're not as in love with your partner as you once believed you were you begin shining a negative light on anything and everything that they do this could be because you are subconsciously trying to find a way to justify underlying feelings of not having interest in them the quirky little personality traits they've had all along soon become inexcusable leading you to blow them out of proportion mentally and verbally with this negative outlook on their miniscule personality issues you begin to convince yourself that you can do better than them because their issues are so inexcusable yet yours are just human tendencies once you have this opinion of them it's a difficult and nearly impossible thing to shake meaning you will slowly become deeply annoyed at these traits resulting in complete dissatisfaction in your relationship with them in other words a complete loss of love and empathy number eight you're secretly planning your escape you'll tell yourself it's a back-up plan when in reality it's a sure sign that you have no interest in being with this person anymore maybe you're scoping out new potential partners or finding ways you wouldn't tell them you want to leave without hurting them should something ever happen these are signs that you're ready to move on and really shouldn't be keeping this person hanging on in hopes that you'll come around you begin to think of what life would be like without them and what your plans would be you make the scenario very real in your head to find comfort in the thought rather than fear or guilt you begin answering questions like where will i move how will i get back into the dating scene what hobbies will i start to film my free time once these possibilities consume you you can be sure you're not in love number nine you're okay with them being with someone else when you have love for someone you can't fathom the idea of giving them up for someone else and you're overwhelmed with jealousy with the thought that they could be with someone else in other words the thought of breaking up is just not an option so on the flip side if you find that you'd be okay should they decide to be with someone else or if you have an interest in talking to other people it's a clear indicator that you're not in love when the thought of being with the other person doesn't trigger any emotional thoughts within you aside from relief the love has died number 10 you begin doing more things for yourself when you're in love there's a sense of security and teamwork both people feel that they can let down their sense of survival or every man for themselves idealism to unite as a partnership where both people look out for one another although independence is also part of a healthy relationship if you lack this sense of love you will find yourself back in this thought process and decision making habits of only thinking of yourself and your success maybe you're saving money for your own condo so that when you're ready to move on or you're planning a trip without even batting an eyelid that they're even invited this selfish way of thinking scraps the idea of making any sacrifices for your own goals in order to include them in your plans and that is a sure sign you don't love them well that's it for today's video cycles according to these signs are you really in love let us know in the comments below also make sure to leave us a like share this video with your friends and also subscribe to our channel for more cycle videos we hope you learned something and we'll see you in the next video