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- Michael Grinder here. I'm gonna talk about a taboo subject. What is the difference verbally and non-verbally between female and male styles of communication? Some people are even offended by talking about male and female styles of communication. So please, bear with me as I get in trouble talking about controversial issues. By the way, I have six biological sisters they wanna know why they're not getting to appear also, I promise I'll share it with them. (gentle music) (gentle music) Number one, you have to really understand that the way females and males talk are different. In what way? Well, one of them is, a female can talk about content and pay attention to the process of how it's being delivered at the same time. Males they can pay attention to the content, but not the process. It helps you appreciate why when females are listening they bobbed their head like this. They make encouraging sounds. Hmm. Uh uh. What they're doing is they're indicating I'm supporting the process as well as the content that you're saying, males they're afraid. If they bob their head, they may be interpreted as a green with whatever the content is. Both of them have to get that elephant out. The female oftentimes has to say this I'll be bobbing my head. and I'm told that I make encouraging sounds all the time. I want you to know it doesn't mean I agree with what you're saying. It means that I'm supporting our conversation. The male has to do the same thing also. You know, I've been told that I don't bob my head a lot when I listen. It's because I'm concentrating, in no way am i trying to discourage you from talking, please continue. As long as you get the elephants out, it's okay if there's a difference. And if I may, sometimes the statistical information about males and females (laughs) are exactly the opposite. And sometimes how we are at work is very different than how we are at home. One of the things that we want to suggest, number two is that there's a huge difference in terms of how decisions are made. Actually, what you're going to find is females want to be involved in the decision-making process not just the final decision whereas males will tend to only want final decision. So that's why when my wife asked me, honey what do you think about blah, blah, blah. It's a rather complex decision. I want to go away and think about, I could, and will maybe, we are, vary both. Here's another okay factor, bring them all together. Then I come back and I just share my decision with her. Ooh, I've learned that that does not work. What she wants is for me to share, I feel this way and I feel that way then she feels closer to me. So sometimes number two, the difference between men and women are, do you share your...