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hey everyone chloe here and welcome back to my channel and if you are new here ladies and lurkers welcome so in today's video i wanted to discuss the very commonplace ways that men run game on your lack of awareness your low self-esteem and your low self-worth and this goes for all men whether beta or alpha or a mama's boy or the rich dusty or the self-proclaimed nice guy or a withholding stingy millionaire or your typical lazy bum because when it comes to men and what's between your legs or having access to your time men will lie and run really strong game on you to get what they want and they will also depend on your desperation to be successful in their game because most men are conditioned to believe that when it comes to women that a sucker is born every minute and although it isn't your fault that men are inclined to omit the truth or to lead with deception when it comes to chasing the cat it is your responsibility as a woman to know exactly what you want as a woman by making yourself high value and by putting yourself on a feminine pedestal so that you aren't running around like a lost chicken with your head cut off and when a woman falls for a man's schemes his very calculated and strategic games and tricks and sob stories it will often involve knowing how to tug at a woman's heartstrings and knowing how to stroke a woman's ego by telling her exactly what she wants to hear and you do yourself no favors ladies by sticking your head in the sand and being naive about a man's nature and you do yourself no favors by being in denial about what men overall covet and value now men are hardwired for the chase and the hunt and as feminine women we are the coveted prey to be pursued and captured because the rule of thumb is that the sperm will always chase the egg and not the other way around but a feminine woman will need to educate herself with the invaluable skill of seeing the game coming before it arrives at her doorstep and it really isn't that complicated once you understand what men want the most which is the fun that is between your legs and outside of that their desire for money power respect and admiration unless they are dripping in dysfunction which is why i am always discussing dysfunction on this channel so here are 11 ways that men run game on your low self-worth at number one he watches the way you carry yourself ladies if you are sloppy unkempt not put together disheveled and pretty much inconsistent with your outward appearance a man will consider you easy pickings and low hanging fruit number two you are easily impressed by compliments flattery and word salad so much so that you sleep with men when they have nice things to say about your accomplishments your ability to work hard how smart you are blah blah blah how different you are from other women and you fell for it so ladies stop allowing men to groom you and lowball you with word salad number three you think a predator and a low value man has a specific look ladies predators con men charlatans and low value men come in all shades sizes class levels races nationalities and religions they can also be educated they can also be home owners and they can be affluent low value does not automatically mean the typical dustiness that we see in the ghetto or in poor neighborhoods at number four he keeps you on a string by telling you what you want to hear and the strategy of knowing how to keep a woman on the hook by stroking her ego is as old as father time when a woman doesn't know who she is or what she wants she is very easily overtaken by emotional manipulation number five speaking of flattery what does flattery actually sound like it sounds like you're beautiful even when you look and feel a hot crusty mess or when you know that you are a woman who neglects herself he'll tell you he misses you even though he's been missing in action for three weeks or he'll leave you on read with his text only to respond hours or days later he will say that he's looking for a wife or that he wants to get married someday keyword someday because he knows that you are thirsty for a ring from somebody and anybody to marry you if he tells you he loves you and he hasn't spent a dime on you he does not love you flattery is the easiest con and the easiest game to run on women because it works and it is the quickest and most effective way to run game on you and score and women are often so desperate for attention because they do not treat themselves as high value women number six he knows that you view him as the prize most women are conditioned to believe that men are to be coveted and captured especially when it comes down to the fear game of statistics which is why so many women will do almost anything to please men wash his laundry tidy his apartment cooking him breakfast lunch and dinner all in exchange to just get laid at number seven you pick up the phone immediately when he dumped you or ghosted you three months ago ladies when we allow men who mistreat us to have a seat at our table we are basically telling him that our esteem is in the trash and when men take note of your weak boundaries they will mob you with the floor and treat you like a rag doll until you cry uncle especially if they are narcissistic men because narcissistic men are particularly ruthless number eight you think being a nice girl impresses him nope men are attracted to women who do not allow men to walk all over them because a man's number one love language will always be respect so if you do not respect yourself he will never respect you and you will not be a woman who is on his mind when you are out of his sight so how do you get a man to respect you and value you by walking away when you do not like what is being served at the table if you want marriage and he doesn't walk away if he cannot afford to take you out to dinner he is not a viable prospect if he is looking to build together he is looking for an in-house maid and a roommate and if you've been with him over a year and you have not discussed marriage you are a placeholder and a placeholder is a temporary woman that a man will string along until the woman he really wants shows up number nine and this will be very very triggering for many women to hear but most women have fallen for the campaign of internalized misogyny that has tricked them into believing that their vagina is more powerful than the next woman's but that is an ego game that men play on women to make women feel special and more valuable than other women because most men are keenly aware that women are willing to throw another woman down a flight of stairs to compete and to prove to a man that she is better than the next woman and i hate to burst your bubble but to men vagina is vagina and a man will take it loose tight old young skinny flabby wrinkled and of any nationality especially if the price is free 99. what makes a woman stand out in a part is her femininity her substance and a woman's ability to treat herself as the prize and a woman's ability to put herself on a high value pedestal those are the qualities that make a woman memorable in a man's eyes not your vagina game at number 10 you confuse his representative with his true character ladies when first meeting a man he will always show you his representative he is not going to tell you that he owes back taxes or that he just had a baby last week or that he's sleeping on a sofa or that he dropped out of college his job as a hunter is to sell himself as a polished and put together person but when a woman is not thirsty or eager a man's mask over time will eventually drop so as a solution learn how to properly vet men and i've already made a video on vetting and lastly number 11 you are all over the place with what you desire which will make it very difficult for you to manifest the specific life that you want one minute you want to be a wife and mother the next minute you want to be a ceo and an astronaut one week you want to be a stay-at-home mom and a wife who has the time to relax and shop and dwell in her feminine the next minute you want to run a fortune 500 company and be a boss whose husband is a cheerleader now ladies i know that the messages about having it all can be very confusing and i will be going live to break down this very nuanced topic but to unconfuse you and some of you may be triggered to hear this you may be able to have it all and that is a strong may but you cannot chase it all at the same time which is why a woman's life comes in a variety of stages it is also the reason why a woman has a 15-year window on her fertility as women we are not designed to do it all and to chase it all at the same time and trying to chase it all is why so many women end up burning a short fuse and attracting men who want nothing but role reversal so be clear and decide what is most important for your life right now and the stage that you are in right now and write it down because the spirit of confusion will keep you stuck in neutral and confused and lost and when you send mixed signals to the universe you will get mixed results and a predatory man will always take advantage of a confused lost and unsure woman so that is all that i have to say on this finale most men will run game on women because men like to play games to stroke their own egos and they also love the thrill of the chase because it keeps them from being bored and as a woman it is completely your responsibility to make yourself high value and to put yourself up on game so that you are not played used up and treated like a forgettable memory so stay tuned for more feminine videos to come and i will catch up with you ladies and lurkers in the next one you