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[Music] well as a woman who gets attention and who grew up in a white culture more than a black culture i'm gonna tell you that getting attention from black guys is not a badge of honor if you're white okay and i'm white you are what yes hey guys so i want to go over this video that is starting to trend and this is an incident that first hit the news two days ago and now is trending all over social media it's going from twitter to facebook to instagram to be quite honest i'll be rude with you guys i actually only heard one black man talking about this situation and this is where i first heard it from and this was from c boogie's channel so shout out to him for talking about this issue and putting it out there you guys know when you come to my channel i'm breaking down the whole pathology that leads to behavior like this because we're starting to see more of it where black women don't have the freedom to deny black men anything to decline any offers of anything apparently black women are obligated to give themselves to black men without getting anything in return and this is a pathology that that is not only prevalent in our community but it's getting worse because as a community we still refuse to address blackmail pathology no matter how problematic it is and the reason we need to understand their pathology because it is their flawed thought process their reprobated mind that actually leads to this type behavior but unfortunately because of the black male worshiping culture and the privilege that black men have within our culture we refuse to shed light on their pathology and have a real honest discussion within our community about how problematic it is it doesn't matter that we see this happen time and time again it doesn't matter that they show their disdain all over social media there's always going to be a disclaimer given there's always a black woman somewhere waiting to jump up and give them an excuse there's always a black woman willing to come out and ostracize black women who tell the truth about them so our entire culture facilitates this behavior and i'm not saying that this is your fault black women i'm saying that there are things that we do as a culture there is socialization that has been passed down from generation to generation that has led to this climate that we're currently in and no matter how problematic black men's behavior become we refuse to acknowledge who and what they are and i'm not saying there's not a reason for this i'm not saying that there aren't origins and that you can't look at certain events that happen but the bottom line of it is is whatever event happened to cause this is not your fault as a black woman black men are men and if they don't want to be subjugated it is their responsibility to compete with other men so that they don't be subjugated so really the more excuses that we make the more disclaimers that we make the more we sit up and facilitate this problematic blackmail worshiping culture the more we're going to have situations like this happening now you guys should already know what i'm referring to just by the thumbnail there was a case out in harlem where a black woman was going into a convenience store just to buy a bottle of wine she didn't want to be caught up in a tornado of dust she wanted to go inside the store get her bottle of wine and leave but because you have dusty thirst buckets walking around with the mentality that they are entitled to black women you got a response from black men that at this point is really typical and let's not act like it's not there's a reason why they only want to look at data when it applies to demonizing you but when it's time to get into their pathology they want to cry foul and talk about how bias the same data is that they're using to condemn you so i want to show you guys this news clip so you can hear from this woman's mouth what happened when she encountered these two dusty goons and then i'm gonna show you some comments on twitter because again like i said this is working its way through social media and there's really something that i want to highlight about the mentality of black women and some of the responses that they're giving and then i want to go into the four top reasons why this behavior is going to continue to happen but first take a look at this video and then i'll come back for further commentary so i tried to show the news clip but youtube being on the extreme censorship that it's on would not allow me to do that and when i uploaded the video they blocked it so i had to come back and re-edit it but basically in the video the man in the red coat when this black woman went into the store to purchase some wine offered to pay for the wine for her she declined as she had the right to do so and basically they both accosted her she said one of them tried to bite her eye out you guys are familiar with the story now so i really don't need to go over all the details and there was some footage in the news clip that was graphic so i'll admit that's probably why it was censored but this is just a pathology of entitlement and this is not the first video that we've seen like this so really i don't even have to show you guys the video you already know what happened here listen i'll say this i think that at least for the past two years because we know 2020 came in hard showing as black male pathology and 2021 is doing the same thing i feel like as a community we're being forced into the position where we need to address this problematic behavior that black men are engaging in we have gone this entire time ignoring their mindsets giving them passes on the fact that they don't do anything uplifting them as kings making a bunch of disclaimers you have black women who have entire movements focused solely on ostracizing black women creating false histories talking about how black women somehow made this pact with oppressors when in actuality it was black men that did that so there's a number of different things that we do as a culture to facilitate this behavior and i think that the universe is showing us that this can't be ignored anymore we have a propensity in our communities to sweep things under the rugs and if we're not sweeping it under the rug we're completely outright denying that there's an issue with this even in my comment section you are likely to see not only black men but black women putting out disclaimers talking about this is not all black men look we're past the point of making these disclaimers it's silly it's counterproductive it only belittles the real issue and the bottom line of it is is we don't need a disclaimer that this is not all black men the bottom line of it is is too much of them and it's enough to where it became a global issue and anyone who wants to honestly do the research and look into this and you will see that this is not just an issue relegated to the us this is an issue globally where you have a group of men who refuse to be men who refuse to face their subjugation who refuse to face the history of their bad behavior their mistakes and quite frankly they're engaging in the same behavior now it is a privilege in our community to put black men on a victim vote where he doesn't have to be accountable for his behaviors we're always talking about how much of a victim he is when really he's a participant and we ignore the victimization that they subject their own community to you'll have black women sitting up talking about how data is flawed literally always making some kind of excuse or some kind of justification for their behavior and this is the climate that is continuing to facilitate like i don't really understand what it is that we expect if we want black men to do better why are we still coddling them if we can all come to the consensus and the agreement that they've dropped the ball and failed their communities why are we not having a discussion this behavior could only take place if there is a severe deficit of manhood in the black community so even though this may not be all of them where are the men who are checking them because this behavior isn't engaged in when you have a culture that says we're going to check the men's behavior and hold them accountable these men and you can tell by the smirks and smiles on their face if you look at the footage when they went there they went in there and engaged in that behavior without a care in the world and then what you're going to be having some dusties who are going to be saying um black women are always talking about black men don't provide but then when a black man want to provide for a black woman then she start acting masculine and that's why we go to becky's because the becky's are nicer the approach is nicer black women always have an attitude well of course black women always have an attitude because this is how you act and let's not act like they don't do the same things to star bunnies when they decline their offers because there was a video that came out a couple years ago of a black man two of them jumping on top of a car of a becky who chose to politely decline his advances the reason they don't do it as much in that community is because they have a group of men who will give them a severe consequence there's no consequences coming from our community so even when we sit up here and say well there's a lot of good black men out there too which is the common narrative we keep hearing it still begs the question of okay well why haven't this over abundance of good black men made a coalition to get rid of these dusties in the community it's a problem and even on this very twitter thread you're going to see a deficit of black male presence here to check this behavior it is a problem but i want you to take a look at some of these tweets because i want to come back and discuss a theme that i noticed from black women in these comments section and then i want you to pay attention to and count the amount of black men that you saw ostracizing this behavior because understand look i'm not showing you every last comment on here of course there's like hundreds and thousands of comments but what i'm noticing as i'm looking through these comments and getting ones to show you i'm noticing that there is a severe deficit in black men who are ostracizing this behavior there was a couple of them that you're going to see in the tweets but by and large they are absent and so this is why i don't do disclaimers the men who are different will set themselves apart and there are a couple of them in this comment section who are doing so but the vast majority of them are not so take a look at these comments and then i'll come back and tell you the four ways our community and the culture that we have facilitated over generations is the direct cause of this dusty behavior [Music] me [Music] uh [Music] now you guys saw those comments and while there were a few black men who stepped in and made their comments on this there was a severe deficit of black men and it just is what it is one day we're going to really face the reality that the vast majority of them have no interest in the community they don't believe that they should be held accountable for anything they don't believe that they have any thought in anything literally black men have been subjugated for nearly 500 years in this country alone yet they've been perfect the entire time they haven't made a mistake they haven't done anything wrong it's not their fault they'll blame everybody except them and literally our entire culture facilitates this but before i go into the four main ways that we facilitate this behavior i want to talk about the response from black women if you read those comments then you know that black women are in deep fear of black men yet these are the same men that we advocate for we stand on the front lines for we will protest for we will ostracize other black women for so the question is what is wrong with black women psyche what is it embedded in them that makes them think that it is okay to protect and advocate the very men that they fear the most and i would venture to say black women fear black men more than they fear men of no color and these are just the facts we see it in the responses every day we see it in this comment section i see it in other people's comments section yet there are still an overabundance of black women who will defend black men who will advocate for them who will put themselves in masculine dangerous positions all in the effort of proving that they are loyal to a group of men who is clearly not loyal to them there are black women on here literally saying well this is why i just give him my phone number they are so fearful of the response black men will give to their rejection that they feel like they just have to concede and give a man that they have no interest in their phone number and i understand they're doing this out of fear but what you're doing is facilitating his dusty pathology they already have a psychopathic entitlement mentality and so when you operate from a basis of fear and give in and give them your number anyway and comply with them it's only going to continue this cycle they may spare you in this moment but let another woman like the woman in this video decline them and they're going gonna act violently it just is what it is but the fact that black women feel obligated to give a man their number that they don't even like is a problem but then our culture says black men are the prize right black men are the kings right you're the seed of your father right black men determine the race of the child right see because when you place all of the importance on one gender in your community despite their failures despite their inaction despite the fact that they're not deserving this is the exact climate that we cultivate but number one of course you guys know the black male worshiping culture the bottom line of it is is this is the results of generations of black women coddling black men from the cradle to the grave black men don't have to be accountable for anything they do including the oppression both physical and verbal that they subject black women to you even have many black women today who will still claim that black men are incapable of oppressing black women saying that because they themselves are oppressed and lack power i was literally watching someone sit up and say that black men don't have the ability to oppress because they are oppressed themselves were overseers on the plantation they were oppressed but they were also elevated to a position to oppress others so anybody with little historical knowledge or even a little bit of knowledge of what oppression is would never open their mouth to say that black men are not able to oppress because they are and in fact they would be more oppressive if they had systemic power to do so and that's why even the ones who position themselves in a position of so-called power they still go out of their way to oppress black women and to deny this and to act as if this could not happen is very dangerous this is one of the primary ways that we do this by saying they're not even capable of doing something that they do all day every day this is the length that some black women will go to in the pursuit of defending black men and it's a problem it is a problem number two we constantly minimize behavior just like this by stating the obvious that oh it's not all black man it sounds the same as when somebody says all lives matter in response to you saying black lives matter it greatly minimizes the issue here and all these disclaimers are doing is deflecting from the real issue at home all black men or at least the vast majority have failed to protect black women if this is the cultural climate then that means there has been some inaction on black men's part black men have never made it abundantly clear to men within their community and outside of their community that there are consequences for behavior like this so when those men walked up in that store they had these grins on their face they didn't think a consequence was coming they did that in the company of cameras everybody knows that convenience stores got surveillance cameras these men had no problem showing their faces or engaging in this behavior because at the end of the day who's going to check them nobody they're still going to be black women sitting up here co-signing this behavior and defending them they're still going to be black men making excuses and only concerned about you putting out disclaimers to somehow disassociate them from the very men they're like nobody should be going out and giving disclaimers for black men if they are so pressed for the world to know that they are different than they will show the world that they are different their failure to establish a wall of protection around their community is what's helping to create this climate because they've given a green light to men both inside and outside of the community to see black women as prey and that is what they see us as in addition black men constantly take to public media outlets and express their disinterest in protecting their community they are rarely checked by other black men and are always co-signed by some black women and then we wonder why it is that these things continue to happen see because we don't understand how dangerous and problematic our behaviors are not understanding that we're literally helping to create monsters i mean number three should be obvious black men do not have to be held accountable for their failures and i don't care if any dusty sugar booty kitten heel weary man sits up on a platform and tries to tell you that black men have always been held accountable i bet you he can't list one way that black men have been accountable for anything and child support is not an example because nobody should have to put you on child support because you refuse to take care of your child just by virtue of them complaining about child support tells you how they never have to be held accountable for their failures someone else is always at fault and if they can't blame dwight men they will blame black single mothers blue martians anyone but themselves and of course the number one thing to keep in mind when you're dealing with dusty derelicts with reprobate mentality is that black women are always at fault there are a number of different black male and female content creators who have channels who exclusively focus on telling black women to change themselves in order to change black men it is not your job as a woman to change the behavior that a man chooses to engage in yet we see this all the time if a black woman is a single mother to other black women they will say it is a choice knowing that men control marriage yet they'll say oh you you you chose to be a single mother because you didn't you didn't get married get married to home how is she going to get married to a group of men who don't value marriage with any race of woman yet they have the privilege of getting black men and black women to co-sign their foolishness and all you're doing is contributing to this behavior rarely do we see content creators explaining why it is that black men choose to engage in derelict behavior it is literally everyone's thought but his own for example there was a woman who commented on one of my videos where i was literally going in on blackmail pathology and i want to read you the very problematic statement she said because this actually directly relates to what a lot of black women say so listen to this she said we need to be honest we are in our masculine versus our divine feminine as men are reactionary they react to this when we act in our own feminine they react in their masculine we have to learn divine feminine principles i e do videos on this it will take both going back to get to the natural polarity that is twisted i make videos on this she is loud but her words aren't necessarily wrong in divine feminine fundamentals we are two halves of a whole and both need to level up so this is clearly one of those women who make level up content that is geared towards telling black women if you just correct your deficits then black man will operate in the masculine if you just work on being more feminine then and only then can he be more masculine because of course a masculine man who was reactionary can't possibly be masculine first unless a black woman is feminine do you see this flawed logic how does this help black men to correct their own behaviors or does it give him a pass and say it's okay for him to engage in his behavior because black women are just not feminine enough despite the fact that black men have access to other racism women they date other racism women most of them who they claim are the utmost feminine yet they still don't engage in masculine behavior so this even puts the onus on black women and that's why i respond and said that's not how reality works masculine men don't wait on women to be feminine so they can be masculine you sound kind of silly like you're telling black women the issues in our community is what they're lacking femininity as opposed to what black men are lacking which is the motivation and desire to be men and see this is how black women tend to cosign this because she's saying well nothing's wrong with black men the problem is that black women are just aren't feminine enough so they're not giving black men the opportunity to be masculine how masculine is it for a group of men to sit up and watch their community decline and watch their community perish while he sits up waiting for them to become feminine not understanding that femininity is rested meaning men are supposed to already create the climate for the women to rest in their femininity in they have failed to do that but you have yet another reprobate mind black woman because i told you they're always somewhere lurking ready to defend black men and give them a pass for their behavior and then they sit up in my comment section and make dumb statements like this other men would even be embarrassed for this to be the narrative that their women is spreading about them number four black men are exalted despite doing nothing for their communities and number three the example i gave you from that flawed mentality woman talking about we both need to level up understand ladies reality does not work that way your femininity isn't going to make him more masculine because if he's lacking masculinity now there's nothing you can do other woman to make him more masculine if you think you need to level up then level up but understand that you changing you is not going to change him it's just not black men believe they are the prize and women who sit up and talk about this femininity they clearly believe black men are the prize as well and them being a prize means you are entitled to whatever you want and a woman especially a black woman has no right to refuse him that's exactly how those men act and you know a group of men are a prize when you can have a black man who's sitting there in all of his sugar booty essence only failed relationships to talk about yet he has no shortage of black women willing to call into his show and get advice haven't checked one credential men is clearly not even interested in women at all yet they'll call to get advice on their desire ability not understanding that every last one of those derelict men who listen to him have the same pathology as these men in this convenience store they have the exact same pathology and would engage in the exact behavior because they feel entitled because they feel like they are a prize and a prize doesn't have to do anything except be what it is a prize doesn't get rejected because just by them being the prize they're already elevating your status and that's how black men act our culture says that black men are the most important and the most protected despite the fact that it is black women who are more accomplished we do more for the community and we carry the black community including black men on our backs allowing black man to believe that he is the most desired man on the planet with our unrequited loyalty has also contributed to his psychopathic entitlement mentality we act as if black men don't have free will and as if they don't know the difference between right and wrong and they do they freely engage in this behavior because there is no consequence bottom line and you becoming feminine isn't going to change anything and if you think that femininity is an issue then you don't understand what's really going on in our community and until we choose to create a new culture we condition the women and recondition the men by showing them that we're not going to have this dusty dynamic anymore this is going to continue to happen you better believe it you can become as feminine as you want to and you're still going to have dusty derelicts like this you can understand that in fact it will actually just increase it because you're showing them that despite the fact that they are showing that the issue is them you still think the issue is you and quite frankly if you're one of those women who are promoting those messages that you need to become more feminine then absolutely the problem is you but you guys let me know what you think about this whole situation this was disturbing and hard to discuss like comment subscribe when you subscribe don't forget to hit the notification bell so you'll know every time i upload content and when i go live thank you for your support and i'll see you in the next one [Music]