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gentleman's got here this is part 2 of the text game series if you didn't catch last week's part 1 video I highly suggest watching that first because it really lays the foundation that this video builds on so I'll put the link right here now on to the video let me ask you a question have you ever gotten a text from a girl you liked and didn't know how to respond at all maybe you couldn't tell if she was into you or not maybe you didn't know whether it was the right moment for you to ask her out or if you should just continue having normal conversation maybe you were scared of flirting with her and coming off as creepy or being too nice and ending up in the friendzone if you answered yes to any of this then let me explain something that'll really help you see anything a girl texts you will be either one of the following four different types of texts and these four types are ignoring testing friendly illogical and positive think of these four types of texts as kind of a flow chart from worst to best when a girl is ignoring you or giving you one-word responses that's the worst spot to be in because she's not interested and when a girl is texting you really positively going along with everything you're saying that means she's into you and you should ask her out if you can tell which of the four types she's texting to you you'll know where you are in the interaction and how to nudge the conversation into the right direction so the next time a girl texts you stop for a moment and ask yourself what are the four types of texts is this so let's first start with ignoring like we just mentioned if the girl is ignoring your text or not being very responsive it means she's not interested in you when this happens the last thing you should do is to make plans to meet up or trying to ask her out a very common mistake I see guys make is that they'll try meeting up with the girl even when she's been ignoring him or giving one-word answers like they'll literally double text hey want to meet up hey want to meet up remember her interest in you is low in the stage so she'll almost always continue ignoring you the more you try asking her out what you need to do instead is to show her more of your personality in a fun engaging way a good way to do this is with the fun giving mentality I explained this topic in my part one video from last week but basically with a fun giving mentality what you want to do is send her funny engaging messages without asking for anything in return something like a joke a meme or a cool story about something random that happened to you today are all examples of a fun giving mentality you see the point of a fun giving mentality is that you're providing fun and iemon in her life without requiring a response and the reason why this works so well is because if she chooses to ignore you again it won't be a big deal at all in fact it'll look way better than if she had ignored a question or you tried to meet up if you keep texting her with this fun giving mindset without asking for anything in return most of the time she'll eventually move from ignoring to the testing kind of text let me quickly explain what testing is it's when a girl kind of screwed with your head a bit saying or asking something to try to get an emotional response from you just to see how you react the reason she does this is to test how confident you are an example of this can be oh I bet you say that to all the girls or ha you're totally the player type I can tell just by looking at you if you play it cool and pass her test she'll know you're a confident guy and she'll like you more as a result on the other hand if you overreact and fail her test she'll know you're not very confident and her interest in you will drop if she's testing you though don't worry that's good news I mean she's actually putting in the effort to respond to you when before she was just ignoring you so you're definitely headed in the right direction when you start getting the testing type of text from her the key thing to do is just to pass her test to show her you're not fazed by her and that's it a good way to past almost any test is with the exaggeration technique I like this technique because it adds humor and it also shows her you don't take yourself too seriously which are both things girls find attractive here's an example of how it works let's say a girl gives the same test I mentioned before Oh what bet you say that to all the girls using the exaggeration technique you can say something like yeah I do but normally I forget their faces by going along with what she's saying and exaggerating it you pass her test by letting her know you're not fazed by it the most important thing to remember is just to pass her test nothing more don't pass her test then follow up with a question or trying to make plans because that'll take away from you passing her test and it'll also make you seem super needy just pass the test and leave it at that from my experience when you pass enough of her tests she'll either start sending more of a friendly logical type of text or skip straight to a more positive text type assuming she chooses to go the front logical route let's address that the friendly and logical type is exactly what it sounds like it's just normal conversation something like oh I went to the library today to study can't wait for Friday night getting this type of text is a very good sign because he's taking the time to respond to you meaning her interest in you is increasing if the conversation just to get friendly and logical especially after some initial ignoring and tests and how I suggest responding is to give a brief response to answer her back but then adding on a bit of witty flirting at the end let's give an example of this using the same example of a friendly logical text from before you might reply with something like nice I've been meaning to check out that library and I'm glad you're already thinking about spending a Friday night with me adding this playful flirting at the end helps push the conversation from friendly to positive faster I want to point out that context is what's important here like we just mentioned if the conversation just started to become logical after a more negative start you should used a brief response plus flirting technique we just mentioned but if she's been sending you positive flirty texts all day long and then sends one logical text you should still treat it like a positive text give a brief response but instead of adding flirting at the end actually ask her to meet up and finally the last type of text the positive response like we mentioned before this is the best situation to be in because she pretty much already likes you it's usually pretty easy to tell if she's sending you a positive text most of the time she'll be really receptive to whatever you say send lots of emojis and use lots of haha' lol's things that give positive emotion when you're getting a positive text that means that it's time for you to start making plans to meet up a really common mistake I see guys make is that the girl will be obviously into him sending him lots of positive texts and initiating conversation but for some reason the guy never actually makes plans to meet up he just keeps on talking carrying on the conversation being really safe and funny remember at the end of the day the whole point of texting her is to meet up with her in person so she's sending you positive texts don't hesitate to pull the trigger I covered this in last week's part 1 video but when you actually try asking her out I don't recommend straight-up asking her if she wants to come out with you instead try asking a series of questions to get her thinking about the date something like hey do you have good taste in hip-hop music and then how do you feel about rap concerts and then finally what's your schedule like this weekend by doing this you can kind of feel that what she's into and find out her schedule and then use that to plan a great date so those are the four types of texts you should now have a roadmap of how to read any text she sends you instantly categorizing it under one of the four text types to see where you are in the interaction and then responding to that text type in the appropriate way in order to move the conversation towards positive so to summarize if she's ignoring you or rarely texting you send something fun and interesting without asking for anything if she tests you just pass her test without trying to ask a question or make plans to meet up at the end if she's texting you logical conversation just respond briefly while adding some flirting at the end to push it towards the right direction and if he's sending you a positive text take that as a green light to ask her out but do it using a series of questions rather than just bluntly making plans that's it for the video next week will be part 3 of the tech series installment so clickers subscribe and stay tuned you